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Old Jul 03, 2009, 09:27 PM
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They aren't worth the time. They seem to have an entitlement attitude that REALLY turns me off.

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Old Jul 03, 2009, 10:06 PM
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Hi Graceland,

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They aren't worth the time. They seem to have an entitlement attitude that REALLY turns me off.
It sounds like you are meeting women who are just completely incompatible.

Maybe you should sit down and figure out what your needs are and then try to find a woman who is also looking for the same thing or things as you.

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Old Jul 04, 2009, 12:29 AM
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Too bad things haven't worked out yet. You know, some people actually prefer to go it alone--independence, no having to consider a partner's preferences in your decisions, you can sleep over all the bed....there can be advantages.
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Old Jul 04, 2009, 02:41 AM
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It's okay to be single, but only if you really want to be single and not because of resentment towards other people.

I know there are a lot of girls out there with real entitlement issues- and it really sucks, I know. I hate watching my male friends getting involved with these girls, who can be so selfish, insensitive, thinking they are the only person that matters in the relationship and their partners more of a boy toy then a boy friend.

But, that's only a part of things, I've also seen couples where neither partner wants to be a burden on the other so they try to refuse things like gifts, and find it really surprising when their partner is being romantic with them.

And of course, there is always the middle ground, where people are happy with themselves, and their relationship. Who know how to accept kindness and love but at the ame time are not greedy for it.
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Old Jul 04, 2009, 03:27 AM
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Both men and women have issues not just women....

If you spoke to women about men you would get a list as long as your arm as to why you shouldnt get involved with them.
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Old Jul 04, 2009, 04:24 AM
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It sounds more like you do want to invite women into your life, but not the kinds of women you have encountered so far. Keep looking, maybe look in different places than you have been looking... because you're worthy of having wonderful relationships that feel good
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Old Jul 05, 2009, 03:35 PM
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It sounds more like you do want to invite women into your life, but not the kinds of women you have encountered so far. Keep looking, maybe look in different places than you have been looking... because you're worthy of having wonderful relationships that feel good
and why..would i want to invite them in? they'll just use me. who wants to be used?
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Old Jul 05, 2009, 09:00 PM
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and why..would i want to invite them in? they'll just use me. who wants to be used?
it sounds like you've been hurt by chics a few times now in your life.....im sorry that has happened to you
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