[NuckingFutz]

last post about me and a man has so much more to the story i did not know about. I met a man at the library. We talked and became friends. Said he nogf. I told him i was a lesbian but that i found him extremely attractive. One thing led to another and soon we were spending a night or two together here and there. Sometimes he would spend a long time in the bathroom and come out happier, more energetic. But the time we spent together was heaven. Every hug brought heavy sighs from both of us. We fit together like a glove. When i watched him sleep, he looked like an angel. Sometimes though, he would make dates with me and not show. i get a call and it is him inviting me over to his house... he wants me to meet his ex because she is bisexual and wants to find out where to meet women. Like a dummy i go. Turns out they were smoking crack when he called and wanted a 3rd for sex! She has been his gf the whole time. I told her in great detail so he could not lie to us anymore what we did. I know he's trash. Hurt. Help.

[Rhapsody]

((( HUGS ))) -

Sorry you got hurt.... as I was reading your post my mind was saying "don't go to his house" NO "don't go to his house"
I knew what this was leading to before I finished reading.

May the next person you find treat you better.

[NuckingFutz]

i am sure my next love will treat me better. I knew they would be coming down, and out of it. Once she told me she was his gf, i had no sympathy for neither one of them and they were no match for my anger. She got tn hear every xxx detail so even he could hear. I did not tell them that i love him...that is only safe and supportive people to know. The poor gf wanted my support and friendship?! If she only knew. She is probably crawling back into her denial. They will stay in their crack hell together until he gets picked up for parole violation. I will miss his love and affection but then again those were lies too. I want the real thing baby, and i want it all. Do not be fooled by my bravado. I hurt like hell, so keep the support coming.

[BiscuitTin]

Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

i am sure my next love will treat me better. I knew they would be coming down, and out of it. Once she told me she was his gf, i had no sympathy for neither one of them and they were no match for my anger. She got tn hear every xxx detail so even he could hear. I

I don't know what to say, some people are not what they seem, are they?

It's good that you have standards and lines that you will not cross, no matter how otherwise blissful your relationship with him was.

You aren't a lesbian then? I read that you told him you were a lesbian who was still sexually attracted to him.

[NuckingFutz]

i am a lesbian, but i just realised the guys i am attracted to, which are few and far between are bad boys putting on the charm... I do believe charming men coming on to me knowing that i am a lesbian have harmful intentions. Keep the support and feedback coming.

[jerrymichele]

Well it's really a good thing that you found out. This guy is probably a full blown addict. I use to live in Dallas and you need to be careful who you have around you. I know that your upset, but that really could have lead to much more serious consequences. So take this as a lesson well learned.

[Yoda]

well, nuckingfutz, at least your life is interesting, now isn't it?

[NuckingFutz]

not anymore yoda, not anymore thanks to my true friends, my family, and you fine people. love, nuckingfutz