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Jul 17, 2009, 11:26 AM
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I was with my ex for 5 years everything was good until he broke up with me for other girl 3 months before our wedding I told him I loved him he stoped seeing her we moved in together and got married when I was 2 moths pregnant he left me for other girl a couple of months later he called me and to me he wasn't seeing her anymore and thaylt he wanted to work things out I found out his was still seening her I change my phone number he didn't call to check how my pregnancy was doing. I have my baby and I found out that his girlfriend was 3 months pregnant then he put the divorce papers and wasn't joint coustody of my new born. He was really mean to me in front of her. All the time the found out that I was talking to a guy she started calling me and telling me thing we did when we were together and that he want to have sex with me. And I fell and we did 3 times I feel bad. But I still love him a lot and I miss him. I don't know what to do. And I don't know what he thinks. But he still acts like a big *** to me infront for her. What do I do. Help!! Please
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Jul 17, 2009, 02:27 PM
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I think that you should just focus on you and your child. I know that you love him, but he's always cheated on you. You deserve better than this. I would stay away from him, and find someone who shares the same values as you do.
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Jul 17, 2009, 05:17 PM
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OMG....Now, I feel my relationship problem and wanting my ex-bf back is so little compare to yours...
I feel so horrible if the guy do that to me...I saw my ex-bf last night and I saw him favouring another girl over me in dancing and I felt disgusted! Then later on I thought it's better to know his true nature right now rather than being married with him and having kids.... well...you saw his true nature and you didn't get your lesson...you got married and have a baby then he dumped you....is it good? is it what you want? he's a mean person who would never change...and he has all you girls to make him to do that...I would stay away from him totally.... you can find somebody else to love...and if not even it's better than being with him....he doesn't belong to you or anybody else....so, let him go...and free yourself.... I know saying these stuff is easier than applying them...I'm in the same boat as you....but I keep myself free by cutting off all the connections...then little by little your mind starts losening it up and you feel better and you go on with your life.... Last night was really painful to me seeing him giving favour to the other girl...although, I know he doesn't like her...and he knew her before me...and he doesn't date her...and I know that he would never go out with her either....if guy likes somebody, they would make the move at the begining, like the same way he did with me...he chose me between so many girls...and he was so persistance...and this girl was so jealous of me but she stays there....however, I felt hurt and rejected, although I'm not with him at all...but I know he knows what he's doing and I didn't like it... well...what I can do is to not let him to take away my happiness and not giving him that enjoyment...I'm not going to the places that he's there! stay strong and find a loving and kind father for your baby....there are lots of guys out there who need your attention and love... with love marjan |
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Jul 18, 2009, 08:56 AM
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