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Jul 28, 2009, 02:27 AM
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Last year I dated a guy..it lasted for a long time and it wasn't a bad relationship. Our breakup was pretty ugly..but later on we decided to stay friends. We just started talking a lot again but we always end our conversations on a bad note..he usually gets upset over one little bad thing I say and then refuses to talk to me. But the next day he'll be fine! Well we were talking tonight and of course we started arguing again..over the stupid little things...I told him that if we are gonna be friends then we should sort out our problems first! But he didn't want to talk about it...he just said "maybe we shouldn't talk anymore"..but I didn't want that..I think my problem is that I don't want to throw away our friendship and I can't move on. Should I forget about him? Or how could we work this out?
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Jul 28, 2009, 11:23 AM
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It sounds like HE has a problem. He's the one getting mad over little things. Since it's his problem, he has to be aware of it and want to change it. He does not sound like he wants to change - he'd rather end a friendship with you than look at himself. You might want to try pointing that out to him in a nice way.
Other than that there's not much you can do IMO, either accept him the way he is or end the friendship.
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Jul 28, 2009, 06:23 PM
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Jul 29, 2009, 11:23 AM
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In my opinion it would be better to let it go and move on. Staying friends with an ex who is still giving you trouble doesn't sound healthy and could cause problems in a later relationship. Just my 2 cents
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Jul 29, 2009, 04:00 PM
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Jul 29, 2009, 04:44 PM
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Sometimes folks make better friends than Lovers,,,but for the friendship to bloom the Love must wilther.
Like Jen shared,,time is often all that is needed to move the heart away from its loss. With Care, Lenny
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