is my gf cheating on me?

ok so im confused if my gf is cheating on me with her guy friend.

it all started when me and her took a break....we been arguging a lot. bob kissed her on the cheek, and she kissed him on the cheek to get her phone back. 2 days later she tells me that she trusts me that the relationship and work. she has been over his house a lot! shes going camping with him and his family next week. so i find out that she wearing his boxers, shirts at his house. we talked finally on friday after not seeing each other for a month. we talked..she said she loves me and everything is fine between us. she complained about not being able to "touch him" before dating due to his religion. i stepped back pissed, and she not like that! she talked alot about what happened at his house the night before. i been freaking out for 2 weeks....i been dealing with this AND my depression/axiety...which has gotten worse. she freaked out cus i tried to add bob on facebook as a friend, as well her best friend "sarah".

i been cheated on before...she been cheated on in every relationship she been in.

what the **** do i do?? she says we cant hangout before she leaves camping cus shes busy and stuff.

i feel like **** and im soo confused on what to do!!!

ok so i broke up with her. we are friends for now....how can i transition from being a couple to friends?

If you were/are separated, I don't know that that goes well with her playing nun? When she makes statements that alarm you, can you talk about them right then? I don't know if she's saying/doing things to get your attention or what, you have to talk to her!

trust me, shes sleeping with her friend! If it were me, i wouldn't want to be her friend.

She cheated, lied about it and strung you along. I would not trust anything she has to say. It might just be a way to get something out of you. But overall it's your call to trust her anymore or not.

You did the right thing breaking up with her. I would just try to move on as best as you can, and leave her alone. IMO she really disrespected you.

good that you broke up with her....and what is the friendship here?

she didn't treat you nicely in the first place....so, she's not a friend then!

Move on....and find somebody else....I know this is easy to say, and hard to do...because I'm in the same boat as you!!!!

take care
Marjan

she wasnt a good girlfriend to you, she wouldnt be a good friend either, walk away, it will worth it down the road, take care

You need to tell her (and not in an angry manner) how it makes you feel when she spends time with this person and how it makes you feel when she behaves the way she does around him. If she doesn't understand and cannot modify the way she treats you and behaves around him then she isn't the one...walk away and find someone worth your time.

She didn't want you to be friends with him because I suspect that she has been playing the two of you and he likely thinks he is her boyfriend too. I am not sure that you can be friends with someone who is so careless with your feelings. As difficult as it may be..try taking a step back from her and fill your days with other activities and friends that are supportive. How did she respond when you broke up with her?