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Old Aug 27, 2009, 11:09 AM
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I stop going to all places that he goes including my dance class....I don't login to facebook anymore...and I feel great about it....
I tried new dance class, but they are not good as the one I used to go with HIM!
I really miss my dance class, but I'm so afraid to see him....I think he gets a new girlfriend and she's there too....and I'm still alone!
Yesterday, I went to my class, but it was a basic class and I knew he won't be there....and I'm an advance dancer....so, it was pretty boring for me, but I missed my teachers a lot....My teacher asked me if I can make for Monday advance class, she's working very hard but not that many students because of her location.....She asked me if it's possible I come to Monday class as they have shortage of girls in the class....and I told her I will do my best to make it....
I really miss my class and students....but I'm so afraid to see him again....I feel so relaxed not thinking about him that much....It feels like he's a snake there!
What do you think? Should I risk it and go to Monday night's class?
I feel so bad going to the other dance studio who is their competitor and not as good as them....

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Old Aug 27, 2009, 04:45 PM
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Marjan if you are completely over him, than go, but if not I wouldn't go. If you do see him it could stir up those feelings again. Should I go back to my class or not?





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Old Aug 27, 2009, 05:26 PM
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There aren't other studio's in the area? Such an accomplished dancer should have all kinds of resources available to her! What a shame! I say screw it & move to a place where you'll be intellectually stimulated like you need to be, eithout the anxiety of an ex being around, but with all new people to meet!

Either way, I agree w/ Jerrymichele.
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Old Aug 27, 2009, 05:31 PM
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There aren't other studio's in the area? Such an accomplished dancer should have all kinds of resources available to her! What a shame! I say screw it & move to a place where you'll be intellectually stimulated like you need to be, eithout the anxiety of an ex being around, but with all new people to meet!

Either way, I agree w/ Jerrymichele.
well...I did that...I've already tried two different studio close to my place, but they weren't as good as the one I used to go....
I really enjoy the peace I'm having without seeing him...I will wait and see till Monday....If I feel anxious, I won't go there....I might take one of my guy friend with me, then it would be support!!!!
I just hate the fact that I limited myself because of him! now, I don't go clubbing freely, I don't login to my facebook....and I don't go to the dance class....I can't blame him....It's me being so sensitive....but this is the way to quite my obsession with him....and I'm getting better.....
I really don't think I want him....It's just human nature....thinking that if he might be with somebody and I'm still alone....but whatever, who cares!
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Old Aug 27, 2009, 06:22 PM
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You could call the dance studio up, and see if he is on a certain schedule. Maybe you could go around him. I'm so sorry Marjan, I can tell that your still hurting. Should I go back to my class or not?





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Old Aug 27, 2009, 06:43 PM
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You could call the dance studio up, and see if he is on a certain schedule. Maybe you could go around him. I'm so sorry Marjan, I can tell that your still hurting. Should I go back to my class or not?
No...I'm fine...well...there is just two days per week...and he goes both of them...besides, I don't want to make a big deal out of his presentation....
I'm okay really....I have to face it....this is learning carve for me...
Hope one day I find that special guy who is not a jerk like Aaron!

I love your emoticon....so cute....
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Old Aug 27, 2009, 06:46 PM
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Thank you Marjan. You are such a sweet person. I don't see how anyone can be so cruel to you, but than again men can be like that.
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Old Aug 27, 2009, 11:22 PM
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Thank you Marjan. You are such a sweet person. I don't see how anyone can be so cruel to you, but than again men can be like that.
I just got back from dancing....but I miss dancing with him so much, although I don't want to dance with him...because I want to move on....
I wish I was staying his friend, but well....life wants other things for us....I'm so peaceful these days that I don't want to loose my peace....I get sad or neutral, but I'm okay and I enjoy it....I'm not overly obsess or depress....that's been going for around couple of weeks and I cherish it....
I think all those meditation and self-help readings finally helped me....I'm seeing the result....besides, changing the way that I think is the key!
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