I want to share my online dating experience with you....

okay....I signed up for this new online dating site for a month....lots of guys there and they contact me....(I was brave enough to post my photo there, probably, I'm sure there is no guys that I know would be on this site!)

I gave my phone number to one of the guys....and he text messaged me on Friday asked me to call him....I texted him back that I will call him Friday night, then I was busy not feeling to talk to a stranger and I just text him that "sorry, can I call you Saturday morning"...he said "yes"....then I called him on Saturday morning...

guess what? we were talking and things were okay and he was making me laugh....I really liked it, but I had already plan for my saturday and sunday....he got mad at me....hehehehe....I was shocked....he got so mad at me that I can't meet him Saturday or Sunday....and he kinda hung up on me....well...I didn't really care....Then last night he texted me apologizing....I didn't answer him back....and not planning to do that....

It looks like there is a crazy world out there....

just wanted to share my thoughts with you....

thanks for reading my thread
Marjan

Yes Marjan RUN from him. Sounds like a freak to me.

yap....I don't need another drama in my life...I think that's the good point of online dating...It's like shopping...you see, try, not like it, move on to the next one

He snapped before you even had a first date with him. OMG, so keep on shopping. That is so funny.

hehehe....I know...and he regrets now....sending me all those messages trying to get me back....ha...I'm smarter now....I'm not going to close my eyes on major defects anymore

Be carefull on giving out your phone number...

Addresses can be gotton from phone numbers...always use your cell....and those are becoming public info...

Lenny

Thanks Lenny....I know it's kinda difficult this online dating....I have to trust and not trust at the same time....like last night, chatting with one guy and then I gave him my number but I told him to call me tomorrow after work....he called right away....so, I didn't answer him and I was on the chat with him and I told him that I'm tired and tomorrow...then again he called me...I was really getting pissed, how stupid he is? again, I didn't answer the phone....and on the chat, I told him "didn't I tell you that I'm tired and I don't want to talk right now?"...then he apologized and he said he will call tomorrow....
How do we have to communicate really? I got to go and see the person....probably, I should say, I prefer to see them in person first and then give my phone number....I really hate talking on the phone with strangers....and I'm not a phone person....long conversations over phone are bothering me....
Thanks for your advice....ya, from now on, instead of giving up my phone number, I will just talk to them via email and once I see them in person, I make up my mind to give my number out....

Marjan

Try to remember that sometimes(not all the time) victimhood is the result of bad choices...

Be carefull out there,,,things are not always as they seem.

Lenny

Marjan what you could do is meet them in a public place. You drive yourself, and he drives himself. STOP giving out your #. You seem to be getting all the freaks. Oh one more thing, MAKE sure he pays.

Ya...I won't give up my phone number anymore....and I will tell them...If it pisses them off...then sorry, they don't care about me...and I'm better off without them...
the guy last night that I was chatting with and I gave my number kept calling me....It really bugged me, because I told him specifically to not call me at night when I gave him my number....and then I ignored his call and on chat I told him...then he called again...such a stacker....then I told him on the chat that I made a mistake giving him my number....well...he apologized! but I don't think I want to see such an immature person....
ya...I don't feel comfortable talking to strangers at all...and I never get into their cars...no worries about that!
I always meet in the public place....and then bye bye....

thanks again for your support
Marjan

Marjan you will find someone who will hit the make. I have only went out with one guy from an online dating site, so I really don't know to much about it. My bf I have now, I meet him at work. Do you have any friends who can set you up with someone. You know blind date. I've done that before. My dad he meet a woman threw a singles club. You could try that too. Idk just trying to give you some ideas. Here's a good one. Go to a workout gym, and see if there are any single hot bods in there. Guys that workout are not always stuck on themselves. Even though I have a bf. I like looking at hot bods. lol

hehehehe....you are so so funny....I'm okay for now....not really looking....just want to fill up my time...and see what will happen....actually, I kinda appreciate the peace of mind that I have right now....
not looking for headache and drama, but at the same time, I don't want to be away from market...I need practice....
you don't have those funny emoticons anymore to send....like the "Pig"...you know which pig I'm talking about....I'm sure she's reading all these threads and being pissed not being able to reply!!!!
thanks for your support...thank you so much....
Marjan

remember lmao

hehehehe....OMG....you are so funny....can't stop laughing....