Spying on my girlfriend, is this bad

Amen to that!
Sounds to me, William, that you are on the right path of creating EXACTLY what you are wanting to prevent.
Spying on anyone is, in my opinion, completly uncalled for and unacceptable. Don't go there.

If you suspect that she is not honest with you, I can promise you that time will present that untruth to you. In the meantime, why demean yourself by acting so suspicious. Surely, you must know that is an unadmiralbe trait....and you're okay with that?

BE the example that you want to see happen.

Shangrala

Hi ,William,
The most important thing that you consider your spouse is cheating on you is to make sure you have solid evidence, not just suspicions. If your spouse is cheating on you it is fully certain that he or she will be using their computer to maintain the relationship.You are recommended to use spy software like Spotdoggy spy software .
Best wishes.

William? Do you have a therapist? I doubt there is anything your friend could say or do that would bring comfort to you. Instead of hiding in the bushes, get some help.

William, I am new to pc and maybe not the best person to give relationship advise but this caught my attention so here goes! You don't know....that 's what trust is, not knowing but accepting who a person is and what they tell you at face value! If the person does something to break that trust then you have a choice to either trust that person again or move on. If the problem is that YOU are not able to trust then that is not the girlfriends fault and should not be her problem. If the problem is in you, then that needs to be resolved before you can have a trusting relationship with anyone. I do not think stalking is ever the answer! If you assume someone is cheating with nothing to base that on other than your own insucurities and issues you are sabbatoging your own relationship before it even has a chance. Expecting "bad" sometimes causes "bad" when there would not be otherwise. I hope this makes sense when you read it! It makes sense in my head but that does not mean it actually makes sense! Hope this works out for you one way or another!

-reaching4higher-