[imarae]

I am being threatened to get beat up by my daughter father ex girlfriend. She is 45 and im 27. She clearly states in her email that she is going to beat me up so bad and wait there for the police with me lol!!! I am not scared of her and the only reason why I havent gone to her home and fight her is because i have a life and because my daughter is my life and i dont want to risk going to jail and losing my daughter and my job. What do you guys think I should do?

[BipolarMama31]

I would call the police.
Get a restaining order or order of protection for you and your child.
It sounds like you may be wanting to do something physical to her? I think i read that right.
As a mother, i would absolutley not do that or allow violence near my child, or put myself in a situation that could effect my child.

No one should be in fear of phycisal violence, which is why there are many laws to protect 3ct against this.
I dont understand the motive, but reading your other posts i think you need to work things out through the court system, because they are just starting to escalate.
Be safe!

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[imarae]

Thanks she wants to fight me because she feels I disrespected her son who is deceased in an argument with had last year over my babyfather of course. She text me late at night telling me she had just finished having sex with my daughters father and from there the rest was history. We were disrespecting each other back and forth badly, so my comment was tell frank (my BD} he just lost his daughter the same way you lost your son. I know i shouldnt have mentioned her deceased son i felt bad after so i then sent her email apologizing to her but she didnt accept it and till this day she said she wants to fight me.

[divine1966]

Call the police and stop hanging out with trash

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[BipolarMama31]

Save the texts and print them out and go to court and ask for a restaining order immediately.
This is toxic.

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I agree with bipolarmama. Don't have anymore communication with this woman. Go directly to the police and show them the text messages. If she calls you, don't answer the phone. If she shows up at your house do not answer the door.

[imarae]

Originally Posted by divine1966

Call the police and stop hanging out with trash

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I am lost are you referring to the woman as trash? I never said I hung out with her .

[~Christina]

I might be wrong but it seems this entire situation is a Drama fest from top to bottom.

You have been given advice about filing for child support, how to manage him and his partner and how that is going to effect YOUR Child.

I think your playing with fire with making remarks about the death of her son..... Sure your angry but someone needs to be an adult here....Take the high for your childs sake.

If this woman is threating to cause you physical harm then that needs to be addressed by the authorities. It may or may not effect your childs Father to have visatation etc .

There is really no reason what so ever , none.... for you to be discussing anything with his partner. You deal with your childs father... Get court ordered support and everything in writing and you can go about your life and raising your child.

Keep you and your child safe