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Nov 05, 2009, 09:49 PM
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My husband and I recently separated within the last few weeks. We still had been seeing each other regularly and sleeping together and such. He told me he loved me and wanted to be with me but I needed to get my stuff together. Getting on medication for my bipolar and getting a job and such. Well tonight he dropped off my boys' carseats and he decided it was a good time to tell me that he never loved me and that the last few months were only to make me hurt. He was playing with my head and he just wanted to hurt me. He said it was revenge for leaving him a year ago. I feel empty and dead inside. I don't know what to do. I think back on the last few months and they didn't feel fake. How can someone do such a thing? I don't understand it. I just need someone to talk to. My friends don't understand and my mother makes things worse. Anyone else having issues? Probably not anywhere near mine because only my husband could be so cruel.
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Nov 06, 2009, 06:23 PM
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Your situation sounds like something my fiance would say to me. I left him for about two months and he came to hunt me down so him and I can get back together. I have some problems of my own but it has nothing to do with me being on medication.
And your husband seems like a jerk for telling you something like that when he had you believing a lie. Don't worry what goes around comes around. |
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Nov 06, 2009, 07:45 PM
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I am so very sorry this was done to you. Regrettably I know all too well how words can be used to cut hard. Unfortunately it sounds to me like you mistook him for a human being. Your leaving him at one time has little to do with his current inadequacy as an airbreather. I’m sorry but his words are just plain cruel.
I wish you strength and peace. Be well. |
 justfloating, Locust
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Nov 07, 2009, 06:10 AM
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Keep moving in the other direction. You deserve so much better than this. It seems that your ex is finally speaking something which he calls the "truth?!!!" Be careful and stay strong. You can have a life without this person. Sending gentle hugs. phoenix47
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Nov 08, 2009, 05:01 PM
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You need to really think about what you want and clearly communicate.
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