stepdad issues again

i havent been on here in so long, and it figures that a bad situation would bring me back and im sorry but i feel comforatable venting and such on here.

so if you dont know we dont get along and its a long story but its been a long time coming. My stepdad has no respect and no manners what so ever. i was laying in bed watching tv just about to get up to get ready to go to work. he came in and told me, not asked but told me that i had to help him put away some halloween decorations. i went but was not happy about doing so. he then went off about how i wasnt busy and all i ever do is lay around. i then said that i had to help quick then get ready for work. he didnt like that i was trying to get him to hurry and then told me that i had no choice that i had to help him. i then said that he needed to ASK if he wanted my help and he said no that he didnt so i said no, put the things down and came into my room and closed the door. he then came after me, yelled that i HAD to help him and i told him that he was disrespective and that he had no manners, and no respect. he just kept saying that i HAD to go help him. I just kept saying no and that if he wanted to ask i would be happy to, but i wasnt going to be told.

at that point he lost it gave me the feircest look ever and said " your a *****" and slammed my door so hard that things fell off the wall and paint came off the ceiling. he then kicked some of the halloween decorations in the hallway breaking glass everywhere then went downstairs and left. my mom was in the shower and heard nothing. i then got dressed and went to work early, but i was hysterical so they sent me home and i went to my boyfriends house. im staying there for a bit until this blows over.

he sent me a text message today that he wanted to talk but i told him that im not ready to talk and that he has to wait til im ready. i really dont want to talk to him after that, i lost all respect for him and feel like i cant take him serisouly anymore. and i dont want to be home anymore cause home just doesnt feel like home anymore.....

(((((((((((Bailey))))))))))))))))

I think that your really doing the right thing staying away from him. He really lost it. Anyways has your mom tried to get in touch with you?

Gosh, Bailey, I am so sorry this happened to you. Does the arrangement that you have had in the house give this man the right to push you around? I would say not and perhaps it is time for your mother to learn about the immaturity level of the man she married. To slam a door and break things points to a severe temper/anger problem that needs attention. I would patch things up as best you can and plan on moving out when you are in a position to do so. good luck and sending good thoughts your way. phoenix47