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Old Jan 28, 2010, 09:19 PM
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Ho do you recover from a recently ended toxic relationship?

It hurts like hell... don't know if I can stay away from the person.
I didn't realize how addicted I actually was to this person, until I
had to end the friendship.
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Old Jan 29, 2010, 10:20 AM
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One day at a time.
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Old Jan 29, 2010, 10:26 AM
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ending any kind of relationship is difficult but you had a reason so as said before just take it one day at a time and remember the reason you had in the first place.
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Old Jan 29, 2010, 10:37 AM
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Sometimes with toxic relationships there are co-dependancy issues at work. It's helpful to look at what role did you play and what were you getting from the relationship. Was it the drama or the validation of feeling you could help this person. What was the attraction to this person and how can you avoid people like this in the future. It's normal to feel hurt from losing toxic relationships or any relationship. The toxic ones have a powerful hold because they trigger our soft spots and unresolved issues in our personalities. Be strong and good luck.
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Old Jan 29, 2010, 10:42 AM
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do something just for yourself that makes you feel strong and better about yourself, don't know if that helps you
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Old Jan 30, 2010, 12:58 AM
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It is very hard to deal with and ending. I am dealing with one myself. I am trying to hold on to the reason I broke up as well. But I am sad and heartbroken even though I ended it. Just rememeber as I am trying as well that an ending is also a beginning. So let's start the new life and hope for the best.
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