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Old Mar 07, 2010, 10:21 PM
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i was talking to a girl i liked and it was going great. then she mentioned a fight i got in.....well i wouldn't call it a fight so much as some guy randomly punching me in the nads. but i got kind of upset and told her i was self concious. she dug a bit and i started opening up and i made myself sound like a total loser! how do i get over my past and just talk to girls without making a loser of myself?
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Old Mar 07, 2010, 10:56 PM
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Well, if you're a teenager ... you're awkwardness is probably due to the fact that you're a teenager ... and you like a girl. The awkward adolescence age is one we all go through. It's just part of the whole learning experience.
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Old Mar 07, 2010, 11:03 PM
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as a 16 year old girl i can tell you A LOT of teenage guys are random and a little awkward especially when talking to girls. Also opening up doesn't make you seem like a loser to most girls, or the ones that are worth your time, it's even good because they can tell you aren't someone with a huge ego and argent but that your real. hope this helps. (don't worry girls worry about the same things as well)
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Old Mar 07, 2010, 11:18 PM
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as a 16 year old girl i can tell you A LOT of teenage guys are random and a little awkward especially when talking to girls. Also opening up doesn't make you seem like a loser to most girls, or the ones that are worth your time, it's even good because they can tell you aren't someone with a huge ego and argent but that your real. hope this helps. (don't worry girls worry about the same things as well)
ah thanks! i was worried that it was just me. i guess im just stressed cause i really like her. fingers crossed.
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel
Like Im close to something real
I wanna find something ive wanted all along
Somewhere I belong?

he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn't exist
So poof...vamoose you sob

What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony
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Good Luck, Desperate!
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