[Jenn1fer82]

I live with bf about 80% of the time where his sister also shares the apartment. Her husband is being released from prison today and soon he'll be living there too. I'm nervous about him moving in. The sister already has two relapse with alcohol and doesn't have custody of her kids. He went to prison for violating his parole. The court has told him that he's not allowed to be around her but they can't stay away from each other. They both are alcoholics. I've grew up with a alcoholic and it’s difficult because instability is all round. I don’t know how to deal with this when my bf would love for me to still stay there but I have a gut feeling something horrible is about to happen. The husband isn’t supposed to live with us, he’s ordered to stay away from her, they are both alcoholics. She fights the grandparents all the time to see her kids but the court won’t allow it. It’s a big mess. I know my bf will feel disappointed if I begin to stay away from his place.

[Yoda]

Does you BF not see this as a problem?

How long have you been with BF?

Your boyfriend has a serious problem. I assume there is a legitimate reason the court has ordered you friend's sister and this other dude to stay away from each other. The place your boyfriend wants you to stay at has great potential to be a crime scene.

I think I would be moving on.

[ruffy]

((((Jen)))) Follow your gut feeling. Your boyfriend will get over his dissapointment. Be well!