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Jul 21, 2005, 03:20 PM
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I am trying to get my head straightened out a bit on a few issues as some of you know already.
I was writing a letter to hubby and realized if he doesn't tell me things then we aren't really sharing a life together. Maybe I am wrong here I don't know which is why I am looking for other's thoughts on this. Am I asking too much when I say that I have put my fear aside and that I feel for us to Share a life we both have to do this? Man I have never felt so confused about these kinds of things. I have no idea why I can't rely on myself for the answers here. If there is fear doesn't that mean there is not trust? Can there be a healthy loving relationship without trust or fear? |
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Jul 21, 2005, 03:37 PM
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If I may... again...
You're right on all counts. Maybe you can't rely on yourself right now because you're overwhelmed emotionally. No, it isn't a marriage if there isn't communication and trust. Do you know the dynamics of his family of origin? Maybe that's what he learned by watching. When I have more time, you and I need to have a serious chat!  Maybe we can talk this out. Some of the same things that you are experiencing, I am, too.  PM me or catch me in the evening when you have time and we'll chat, ok?Hang tight! 
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Jul 21, 2005, 03:38 PM
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I would really like that Sept you seem to make some sense of what I am saying Thanks and I will look for you online here. Take care and Bless you for caring Linda
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Jul 21, 2005, 06:12 PM
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I agree: you know the answers, you're here for support of them! Making tough decisions are why they are called "tough." Better to clear all this up now, than to wait another 20 years... TC
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Jul 21, 2005, 06:26 PM
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Hi Sky thank you for your response but you could you clear this up for me: what do you mean that I know the answers? I am really confused right now how does that say I know the answer.?
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Jul 21, 2005, 06:32 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
and realized if he doesn't tell me things then we aren't really sharing a life together. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> If there is fear doesn't that mean there is not trust? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> TC
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