[bluegirl...?]

so... there's this guy i used to like and i told him a month ago that i did, and he said he did too -but he had a girlfriend-. just days ago, i declared myself crushless to my friends.

well, today he wrote me note and askred me out [dont overreact that he didnt ask outloud cause he had wrote me a note and said he wanted to ask me somethnng, and dumb me just told him to write it] and i havent told him yet, but i dont like him anymore! >.< and i dont wanna go out with someone i dont like [as a boyfriend]. eh, ive said no to people in the past, but this time im afraid to hurt his feelings....

my friends say that i cant lead him on and that i need to say it face-to-face, but ive still never have actually talked to him outloud [im a major notepasser!] but i think its rude to write it in a note.. ooh, what do i do?!

and it sucks cause i woulda said yes like a week or two ago but now i dont like him anymore.. [bad timing!]

help please,
Danni >.<

[desperate&disturbed]

it would hurt his feelings even more if you weren't honest about this.

[Typo]

Just be honest, and tell him, the more time you let pass the more akward and nerve wrecking it is going to be,

Best wishes
Typo

[bluegirl...?]

unfortunately, i know this.... but i dont want to hurt him at all*

but, i know that i dont want him, and im not gonna put myself in a relationship i dont wanna be in..
too much drama for one school day >.<

[Typo]

Trust me I speak from experince that he will be glad you dealt with it sooner than later, yes his feelings may be a little hurt, but it's better you give him an answer now than making him wait, I'm sure things will turn out okay hun

(((((((Bluegirl...?))))))))

[lxegirl]

obviously you have 3 choices: 1)tell him and get over with it, you can still be friends you know. or 2) tell him but still give him a chance anyways...who knows how that could work out,or 3) lie to him completely and come up with some other excuse. Good luck!

[bluegirl...?]

thanks for all this! haha

well.... i think im going to write a note [i am usually a major chatterbox, but this seems too hard to do in person >.< ] that basically says i dont like him anymore, but i'll still be friends... and, hopefully, everything will be fine again?

i wish i could tell him yes that i like him& wanna date him, but i wouldnt just be lying to him, but myself too... and if i cant even be honest with myself, who can i be honest with? [ehh, too serious of questions! >.< ]

[BrittneyNicole]

How'd it go telling/ writing him you dont like himm?
I hope it went wellz ! ^.^

[bluegirl...?]

well.......

what happened was that i explained that i didnt want to go out with him anymore in a note. he responded, saying it was okay and that he was going to ask another girl out later that day -____- well, that was the last note he's ever given me because i never wrote him back or would talk to him.

if he really meant all the bullshiz he said in the original note asking me out, he wouldnt be asking another girl out IN THE SAME DAY and then TELL ME ABOUT IT. so yeah...

and then we talked on facebook. -i have another thread on this ( i think its called People who dont get it ?)- and i officially ended it. :P