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Old Jul 28, 2005, 03:51 PM
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I've been having big problems with sex concerning my boyfriend. My sex drive is very high, his sex drive is very low. We only have sex about every 2 weeks. Sometimes it will be as long as a month. I've talked to him about it, but I don't get very far. I'm not sure if I should just chill out or what.

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Old Jul 30, 2005, 04:53 AM
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Is he on meds? sometimes they have side effects on sex drive. Otherwise, communication seems the only way to move forward. Just an opinion. Hope things work out. boyfriend issues (of course)
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Old Jul 30, 2005, 12:48 PM
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Otherwise, communication seems the only way to move forward.

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boyfriend issues (of course) boyfriend issues (of course)

Hope things start working out for the better.

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Old Jul 30, 2005, 01:15 PM
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Two people with very different sex drives can be a big problem in a relationship. As time goes on the hurt feeling can multiply. Resentments can build . Little things can become big issues and hurt the relationship. Are the two of you able to talk about it in a loving way? He maybe under a lot of stress at work. Is he on any Medication? He may have a physical problem. Has he seen a Dr? Maybe some of his needs are not being met? Do you wait for him to make the first move? Are you willing to be the one to make the first move? The best thing to do is tell him what your needs are. Ask him what he needs and wants out of the sexual part of your relationship. Maybe he will open up. It is said the sexiest organ in the body is the Brain. Good communication is the only way to really stimulate the That sexy organ. Being open an honest with each other is the only way you will be able to get this worked out. Do this in a loving caring way without pressure.
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