being groped by a male friend

i'm friends with a guy who likes me.but my feelings about him are not the same.i am not attracted to him.Plus there are things about his personality that bug me.He get's touchy feely and has groped me 3 times.Meaning he has grabbed my boob's.Plus he has been divorced for 11 months and he is hard up.He pretty much tries to date every women he see's.i feel sorry for me.But how he treats me i no longer want to be his friend.Lately i have had several issues with a few different men.I actually use to have more guy friends then female friends.Now i can't trust men or women.

This doesn't sound like a good friend - stop being his friend or tell him to back off. Don't even let him get close - what an idiot.

yes his actions towards me is bad.his excuse to me is he is lonely and never felt loved.i don't buy into his bs.i'm glad he lives about half an hour away from me.i have been upset about this since thursday.he has called a few times.but i have not answered the phone or called him back.

Do you think he could be dangerous? If I were you - tell him point blank how you feel and then cut him off. It's disrespectful to you and he makes himself look desperate.

maybe i'm not sure.i just know he is not to be trusted.now i know why his ex wife left him.

Be safe, UCLAFan.

charge the pig...it's hard enough just trying to survive...no one should be put in your situation...

This is why my daughters in Karate.

I don't care how lonely anyone is. You don't touch another person that way period. That is creepy messed up ****.

We are not all pigs by the way. I wish jerks like this would stop messing things up for the rest of us.

Take care.

Man, he lost your friendship and stuff just to violate you. Did he think him groping you would make him not lonely and feel love? Not all people are like this just as Mike said. You have some healing to do. Sending you warm thoughts.

i agree he is lonely but he has no right to act like that to me or any women for that matter.

I'm just gonna be straight out, this guy is a pig, not your friend. NO friend ever does a thing like that to another friend. Hell, nobody should even do that in a relationship.
I don't think he's bloody lonely at all, I think he's making excuses to get laid, 'oh I'm so miserable and alone, I know I'll start groping my female friends, THAT will help me score for sure!'.
Like I've never heard a million excuses myself.
You really gotta stand up about it, I know that it hard. When I was younger one of my friends brothers used to 'like' me, he was older than me and all he really wanted was to have sex. He would touch me all the time I was there, he'd come up behind me and put his hand on me. One day I finally stood up for myself, he was complaining 'can I touch you just one more time? Just on the leg?' but I was adamant that if he touched me again all hell would break. Some guys just need to be told.
Are you withheld in telling him to leave you alone? Perhaps next time he does it scream at him, and if he comes up with his bullsh-- excuses tell him 'I don't care what your damn excuses are, touch me again and I'll call the police'.
If this guys intelligence level means he has to be yelled at like a 3 year old, then so be it. A lot of guys only do these things because they get away with it.

i have told him number of times that i'm not attracted to him.plus i tell him the way he acts he will be single the rest of his life.he also is obsessed with a women that lives next store to him and is always in her business.plus he has called her a ***** and slut.

Stay away from that man, he is a total jerk. If he wants a woman that bad he can go where he can find one. Usually the seedy side of town where the desparate drug addicted females are exploited and willing. Perhaps he'll catch a nasty disease and his willy will fall off.

[quote=UCLAFan;1400747]i'm friends with a guy who likes me.but my feelings about him are not the same.i am not attracted to him.Plus there are things about his personality that bug me.He get's touchy feely and has groped me 3 times.Meaning he has grabbed my boob's.Plus he has been divorced for 11 months and he is hard up.He pretty much tries to date every women he see's.i feel sorry for me.But how he treats me i no longer want to be his friend.Lately i have had several issues with a few different men.I actually use to have more guy friends then female friends.Now i can't trust men or women.[/quote

Hi - keep away from this man. He is not nice, he is not your friend. He is taking advantage of you and being deceitful as well by pretending that his problems are yours. They are not. Keep away. Keep your distance. Be polite but don't allow yourself to be alone with him. When you have 'healed' from this horrid situation with him and gained a little more confidence, you will form relatationships and you will trust again.

he has called me 2 times since he groped me and i did not answer the phone or call him back.

Don't call him! he sounds like a borderline rapist! I would sent him a message and tell him to forget your # and address...and if he comes around you'll call the cops about his sexual harrassment

Is there any way you could block his number from your phone so that you don't even have to deal with his calls? This guy is a serious loser and he is trying to take advantage of you. He is not your friend. My advice is to cut all ties permenantly.

With friends like that who need enemies? what a lame *** excuse to try to get some. Next time (hopefully there isnt one) slap him in the chops and call the police and press charges.

i recently defriend him on facebook and blocked him from my home phone and cell phone.

Good for you (((UCLAFan))) - who needs someone like that.

nobody needs someone like that.