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Jul 01, 2010, 05:49 PM
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Dear whoever can help me or read this,
I was introduced to this guy in 2007. He is from Mississippi and I am from NM. We started talking on a daily basis and didnt stop til one of us fell asleep. Then I got bored one night and called his brother. I just wanted to talk to someone...anyone. He freaked out and said he hated me and never wanted to speak to me again. Anyway so during that two years I met someone else and had a baby and then was engaged and he sends me a message. So things started to be like they were before, but he knows I am engaged. He said nothing was set it stone but my baby. Anyway one things sets him off and he doesnt want to talk to me til he is cooled off. Anyway so he cools down. So we talk, but things became different. He started to see me in a sexual way after talking and saying that I would look good in silk. He started asking me questions like what I liked. Then we would have phone sex. It was weird. Anyway.. I dont know if the guy was using me or what? Im trying to to forget he existed, but I cant do it because I had developed feelings for him. I wont get any closure if I dont confront this guy.--Mere |
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#2
Jul 01, 2010, 07:44 PM
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So, you are pregnant and engaged to one and having phone sex with another. What is the question?
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Jul 01, 2010, 09:30 PM
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I would have to say you probably shouldn't talk to him.
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Jul 02, 2010, 08:06 PM
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Don't waste your time. Focus on the relationship that you're in and forget him. If he respected you in anyway he would have backed off once he knew you were in a relationship.
Why did you open the door anyway? think about your child. |
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Jul 03, 2010, 12:16 AM
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You should have got the message on the kind of person he is by his reaction to you calling his brother. If you had been in an intimate relationship imagine what the reaction would've been then? He doesn't seem stable enough to handle a frienship properly let alone you and your baby. I have a really bad feeling about this; you should stay away from him and focus on your engagement & your child, and I think you know this already,
Rhia
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Jul 03, 2010, 12:29 AM
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I agree with Rhia. You have a family already. Some stabilty. Are you seeking an answer to weather to give that up for someone who believes that nothing is etched in stone? People who pop up in your life years after the relationship are usually bad news.
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