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Jul 27, 2010, 06:21 AM
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Im afraid of committing myself into guys. I dont know, I just thought that all guys are the same. They'll dump me after getting what they want. Im absolutely NBSB. It's not that im man hater, I just have no trust in boys.
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Jul 28, 2010, 12:09 AM
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Hello muffhie,
Don't give them what they want and choose your boyfriends wisely. Tell them upfront that there will be nothing of what you don't want, and don't give in to that. What is the reason you don't trust boys? that is what is behind your problem of them. Hope you sort this out, one day you will be a grown woman and it would be best to sort through this now to save troubles for yourself later...see a therapist if needed, RHiannon
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Jul 28, 2010, 12:19 AM
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Hi Muffhie,
I have a similar problem - but there are issues behind my thoughts - Like Rhiannon asks, is there a cause for your worries? I do believe that you can't put all guys into the same 'box'. They are different and if you find a nice, good, kind and gentle one then maybe you will feel differently... Not sure if this is good advice but (LOL I've done it in the past) play hard to get, don't give in to what they want... do only what YOU want... seems to make guys stay around much longer..
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Jul 29, 2010, 01:45 PM
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I believe you are sincere, Muffhie. You have made your choice and I respect it.
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Jul 29, 2010, 01:52 PM
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Muffhie
 Sorry you are feeling this way. 
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