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Jul 29, 2010, 09:58 AM
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My anxiet has beed getting wors eht ativa, isn't doing as much I may need to up it. I decided to be spontanious(so out of charactr to see my friend. He has no idea. I just wanted to surprise him and of course see him. I got to the only address I cld get out of him besides his home town. His employment. I feel sort of like a stalker. I just won't be able to see himm otherwise for another month and I miss him now.
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Jul 29, 2010, 10:20 AM
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have you tried calling hime/e-mailing/texting first???
simetimes doing that first helps so that you can ease in more to the friendship. Yes, surprising him sounds great, but do you remember what his work schedule is???
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Jul 29, 2010, 10:34 AM
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Thanx dance. I do text to and I just did surprise him at work I know we won't have much time to spend together from short breaks. I asked him when he was working. I am never spontanious like that. It really waas hard on me I took my ativan cuz inthe car I cldnt breath etc. It helped. I'm excited. He was in shock. Like said only get a few minutes for his break but getting to see him at all is fabulous. We had a big hug and he has to work until his break I'll wait cuz I drove to see him. Lol. I felt so brave at first now very very anxious. He looks so good so healthy. I definitely have feeling for him. We both want to go slow and the hour drive qill help that.
 wish me luck.
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Jul 29, 2010, 11:30 AM
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 awesome job!!! I had a feeling you could do it :
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"Life is like photography, you use the negatives to develop"
"When the world says 'Give up,' Hope whispers 'Try it one more time'" ~ Unknown "To dwell in the here and the now does not mean you never think about the past or responsibility, plan for the future. The idea is simply not to allow yourself to get lost in regrets about past or worries about the past or worries about the future. If you are firmly in the present moment, the past can be an object of inquiry, the object of your mindfulness by looking into the past, but you are still grounded in the present moment" Thich Nhat Hanh |
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Jul 29, 2010, 01:29 PM
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Good luck, bridgie.
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Jul 29, 2010, 11:20 PM
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Hope it works out well bridgie
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