what is unraveling from beneath me

perhaps people can help..I met a guy named Joel and we started spending just about every day together. I have many strong feelings toward him. We have done some very romantic things together. Although the whole thing is platonic- no kissing even, no talk of being a couple. We have plans for later today and everyday yet I'm afraid of how deep my feelings are running for him, unrequitted. I don't know what to do with all these feelings. Where do they reside before they become hurt feelings from things that aren't happening?

you say his feelings are unrequitted but you don't know that for sure..he may be feeling alot like you are and not sure what to do with his feelings either...i'd say.enjoy your time together and see where it leads..best of luck

Junerain,

If he's a nice guy and wants to be with you - it sounds good to me.

Take it one step at a time and who knows where it will lead?

Good luck and good thoughts, M

You sound a lot like me, June...
Have you been hurt in the past, and spent much time recovering? This leads us to question even the smallest attraction, and what could potentially unfold.
(I am much the same!), but I would suggest, as others have done here, that you try to relax and get to know the fellow, who obviously enjoys your company and wants to see you!!!
Seeker "Patty"

June, How do you know that those feelings aren't returned? you say you have hada few romantic dates. If he didn't hav somee feeling for you those dates wouldn't be romantic. I'm of the opinion that it is best to just get things out in the open. Tell him what you are feeling. It is better to know where you stand then to sit and worry . Enjoy your time together