[goldielocks]

six months ago i had a big blow up with a friend (who i think has narcissistic personality disorder). he lives in another country and we have emailed each other sporadically since but he never gives much away. he doesn't respond immediately ie about 2 weeks later if at all. he initiates emails at times. i emailed him and asked him if he still wanted to stay in touch. i said if i didn't hear back from him i would take it as a no and i would move on. i received an email back saying it wasn't a good time to talk about it. i have heard nothing since. it is making me anxious and annoyed as i think it isa form of abuse by not saying one way or the other. any advice or comments / suggestions would be appreciated as it is starting to make me anxious and obsessive. thanks. :0

"Would you be better off with him or without him?" ~Ann Landers

[lynn P.]

Don't even give him a second thought -if he's showing signs like this, he's not a good person to talk to at all. Imagine it you asked him a complicated question lol. If he ever does answer, tell him the same thing...makes him wait 2 weeks, be ambiguous and never talk again. He's a Loser with a capital L.

[Rhiannonsmoon]

I agree with both comments here. He is what I would say either a manipulator or he is truly over the friendship and was when the fight happened. Pick yourself up and move on, you can only improve from there and you won't have the anxiety of wondering

[goldielocks]

thank you thebyzantine, lynn and rhiannonsmoon for responding. sometimes i just need someone elses perspective on things. of course you are all right. i guess deep down i know its not me. thanks for the good advice.

[Rhiannonsmoon]

Hello goldielocks,

It's great to see you are doing better. Please remember we are here to support whenever you need it,

Rhiannon