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Old Oct 28, 2010, 04:43 AM
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Im 22. And online dating is not an option for me. Im from india and it doesnt work the same way here like it does for ppl living in america.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 04:45 AM
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Since all of u have told me that it was very wrong to contact him with fake ids so i have deleted him from my fake fb friends list. Plz stay wid me as i need emotional help and support from all of u to NOT sulk
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 04:49 AM
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My obsession even showed from the way i talked to him the other day wid fake id on fb. He even said so. He said he is curious that whether or not i know him in real life too. But i handled it.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 04:50 AM
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Belle can i add u on fb? With my real profile obviously or can i talk to u on msn?
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 05:06 AM
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I PM'ed u

I will be there to help you through this promise. You are stronger than you realise.

I am SO glad that you deleted him.. maybe you should actually close the fake FB account too?
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 05:16 AM
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Yeah i will delete the account too but i wud wait for later tonite and c whats his response,if any, to me cuz of deleting him :-p
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 05:17 AM
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His response doesn't matter in the scheme of things but yes I understand.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 05:51 AM
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He has msgd me that have i deleted him as a friend. Lol,isnt it obvious that i did
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 05:54 AM
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He wasnt sharing his complete profile with me anyway,so i have told him that i thought he isnt comfortable being friends wid me. He hasnt said anything else then. I wil delete the account after few hours.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 08:30 PM
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Lynn: u r rite. He made it clear months ago that he is not interested, yet i continued to pursue contact wid him. Thanks for the kind words though. I had thought that if i remain persistent then he might consider that im not a superficial girl and that he can trust me as a friend.but i was wrong.
Jiakhan - I mentioned in my other post that this guy is superficial not you. You deserve something much nicer than him - someone who's kind. You're not superficial.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 11:17 PM
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you are heading in the right direction. know we will always be here for you.
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 04:53 AM
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He kept talking to me on fb yesterday. And insisted that he will be nice to me if i tell him who i really am cuz he googled my fake name and facts didnt match with what i told him abt myself.
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 04:57 AM
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But i didnt buy it. I have made a mistake to reveal myself to him before aswell to which he responded very harshly. So i havnt told him yesterday and left him wondering who i am.
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 04:59 AM
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The current situation: im not in his friends list on fb. We both said goodbye to each other. I deactivated the fake account.
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 07:15 AM
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yay! good for you i know it can be hard to get out of that habit! it's great that you've made it this far, sometimes it can take a lot of self-control. gratz!
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Old Oct 31, 2010, 04:15 PM
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Im missing him...
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Old Oct 31, 2010, 05:45 PM
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(((Jiakhan)))
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Old Nov 01, 2010, 03:31 AM
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I saw him today. I glanced at him just once and didnt look at him twice. It took a great effort.
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Old Nov 01, 2010, 04:44 AM
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Your doing well, try to stay focused on something else other than him....

Take up a hobby ! Anything just to avoid thoughts of him, I know this is easier said than done but in time it will get better.
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Old Nov 01, 2010, 11:48 AM
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Jiakhan, I dont know the whole situation behind this but I know it can be tough letting go. However, what Im hearing is that he sounds uninterested. He`s only going along because he doesnt know it is you. Once a person decides they dont like another person its impossible to change their mind and trickery will only make the dislike deeper if he finds out. I had boyfriend many many year ago that did this sort of things to his bestfreind`s girlfriend. He was trying to find out what she really thought of him and he really hated her. Anyway i encourage u to think why you want this guy to like you so much. there r so many guys who will love and appreciate you. give yourself a change to find one and that will make this current guy unimportant. also i suggest setting up girls days with your best friends to take your mind off this guy.. your friends can help u cope. good luck and i hope you find a new wonderful man.
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Old Nov 02, 2010, 02:48 AM
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SakuraLi: yes he is not interested. He never was. Im trying to get my mind off of this guy. But u know what, today i had to sit next to him for about 2 hours! It was so hard to resist looking at him :P
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Old Nov 02, 2010, 02:50 AM
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Ur boyfriend contacted that girl because he hated her???
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Old Nov 02, 2010, 04:11 AM
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two hours must have killed you!! heart felt hugs coming your way oooxxxooo
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Old Nov 02, 2010, 07:31 AM
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Yeah Belle :-D That was pretty bad...
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Old Nov 07, 2010, 05:49 AM
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I have seen him at work. And im glad that i didnt keep staring at him
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