[spoiledangel2349]

Hi everyone, I had company yesterday from a guy online I been talking to for a while. He came down to meet me. So far as I know we liked each other. My mother even like him. Today I get a message from him that he's got bad news. I text him back asking him what was the bad news. He hasn't responded yet. I am thinking he doesn't want to date me. Which I was like alright if he doesn't I can move on. I just hate being cut off with no answer.
I just don't know why I have in my head I need a guy. Somewhere deep down that I feel like I will go crazy if I am not in a relationship. I see people together and I feel alone. It's like everyone but me is happy. But I know too that I don't have to be with no one to be happy. I always have the dreams that I would want to get married have someday. It's like every guy I meet wants just sex or married or just a player. Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me. What more does guy want from me. I am caring, sweet, intelligent and I will spoil them if they wanted me to. Whatever I do its not good enough. I don't know what else to do. It makes me feel awful. My problem is whenever I meet a a guy I attend to fall for one. I can't help it. I don't know if I am moving to fast or what. Makes me feel bad about myself.

[Soul Quake]

Saying that you tend to fall for guys you meet suggests to me that you either have low standards, or none whatsoever. Think about what you want in a guy, and what you need in a relationship. Don't settle just because a male is present. Have standards. It's okay to be picky.

Unfortunately for many people, finding the right match doesn't come easy. It's all too common to become daunted, but the necessary, and often difficult part is to keep trying if you really want something.

You know what your strong points are, so keep assuring yourself that you deserve the best. Just because a guy may not be interested doesn't mean that is a poor reflection on you. He wasn't the right one, and that means you're closer to whoever is.

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((( spoiledangel ))))))))))))

[marjan]

sweet heart, don't feel bad...you are not alone in this process....we are all in the same boat....besides, those happy couples that you see, may not be really happy either....that's the funny part of the relationship.....
Unfortunately...online dating can be really tricky....no commitment at all....guys would act really weird....and some are looking for drama....What the heck is telling you "something bad has happened" and then leave you in limbo...that's not good....
I've been always thinking that I want to have a partner in my life....but I've been single for most of my life and still I don't want to put up with some crap to just be in a relationship....being single is not that bad either....you just have one problem being single and you have hope to find somebody....but if you are married to a jerk, then the doors are closed....hehehehe.....
I found out being patient will pay off later.....I dated a guy from online dating and we met three times everything was perfect, then he went for a trip and he didn't call me after that....I was like you thinking what the heck has happened? we had some text between us, and then I figure out if he doesn't call me, I won't bother....after two weeks, he emailed me that he moved for a job to England....and I met him again when he came back....but nothing again....that's what it is....sometimes, things are happening.....we just have to let it go and enjoy the moments of our life....
just don't give it too much thoughts....otherwise, you will kill yourself....
take care
Marjan

[Rhiannonsmoon]

Marjan you put that perfectly