[scooter62487]

Drama is started by people talking about something they really know nothing about. The sad part is the people that start it dont understand why they get blamed for it because they don't feel they were wrong for poking their noses where it didnt belong. And that in itself isnt that bad its when they start talking crap about stuff they hear and know nothing about. At least know for a fact what your talking about.

[bridgie]

that would be called gossip, drama would be the result.

Yeah, I hate that kind of sh**, it happens to often in my place of work it seems. People just need to mind their own business and not always be such busybodies!~

Originally Posted by scooter62487

Drama is started by people talking about something they really know nothing about. The sad part is the people that start it dont understand why they get blamed for it because they don't feel they were wrong for poking their noses where it didnt belong. And that in itself isnt that bad its when they start talking crap about stuff they hear and know nothing about. At least know for a fact what your talking about.

[Rhiannonsmoon]

Dearest Scooter

If the situation was something related to you and others make comment, I totally agree that they should either stay quiet or ask you before making comment

If it is about someone else there are two sides to every story and taking one of those sides without hearing both causes, as dear bridgie writes, drama

Adults as well as children get caught up in these situations, and they are poor for everyone concerned

Rhiannon for one got "caught up" with another who is not what she said she was and this was found out over a number of months with various things that occurred Rhiannon was drained and crushed as well as angry to have been decieved but what to do? She told those whom she felt should know and left it at that vis a vie no drama

Hoping that your situation is resolved and left behind

Morgana

[scooter62487]

For those of you who think I was talking about someone on here I wasn't. I was talking about personal incident that has recently happened in my relationship and the lack of communication that took place which caused the whole thing. Apparently people who read my post thought I was talking abou someone else on here when in all actuallity I didn't even know that person existed on here. Even if I did I would never write something about someone that is on this site. If I have a problem with them I would contact them and/or involve a moderator depending on wether I thought they were needed.

[Laurie1041]

Originally Posted by scooter62487

For those of you who think I was talking about someone on here I wasn't. I was talking about personal incident that has recently happened in my relationship and the lack of communication that took place which caused the whole thing. Apparently people who read my post thought I was talking abou someone else on here when in all actuallity I didn't even know that person existed on here. Even if I did I would never write something about someone that is on this site. If I have a problem with them I would contact them and/or involve a moderator depending on wether I thought they were needed.

I did not read anything in anyone's responses to your post that indicated that anyone thought you were talking about someone on this forum. That kind of thinking could be construed as drama.

As far as "drama" is concerned, the only single thing you need to know about drama is how to disentangle yourself from it. You need not judge others if they are gossiping, "or don't know what they are talking about". What someone else says is on their shoulders! What is important is that your side of the street is clean. Take your focus off of other people, and be concerned with your own feelings. Are you taking care of your business? Are you a nice, decent human being? Do you help others when asked for advice? There are a ton of things you could be doing to make the world a better place!

Gossip and drama have been around since the beginning of time. And they are not going anywhere real soon. So avoid those who are Toxic and enjoy life! You deserve it! Hugs, Laurie

[shay4girls]

haha...it's sad when u post something and someone automatically decides it's about them..makes me laugh cuz I had posted something on fb-n got two different people talking back(not nice)..it makes me laugh cuz they must have a guilty conscience about something or they would've known i wasnt even thinking bout them when i made my post.

[scooter62487]

Yes it is sad when people assume it is about them.

[hoping4best]

It has happened to me aswell quite a lot of times. Really, ppl should mind their own business.