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Junior Member
Member Since Nov 2010
Location: Orange County, California
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Nov 04, 2010 at 12:19 PM
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I cant believe how careful you really have to be when it comes to emotionally bonding with anybody. I would have rather physically bonded. I think that would be easier to get over. I have never seeked out any help or support of this nature in my life but I dont reveal to my family and friends my innermost thoughts except to one person who has totally brushed me off after convincing me he would never do that.
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Nov 04, 2010 at 09:37 PM
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I'm assuming someone betrayed your confidence. I am sorry for your pain. I hope you wont allow that to stop you from allowing others to love you.
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Poohbah
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Location: Perth Australia
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Nov 04, 2010 at 09:47 PM
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I have felt the same.. the betrayal is hard to get over.
I hope like Jenkins says, you are able to allow others to love you and that you can trust again. __________________  How I describe myself: Honest, caring, trustworthy, reliable and generous.
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Nov 05, 2010 at 12:20 AM
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James did this to me... And my best friend (not now) broke my trust. I can understand that it hurts.
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Location: Iowa
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Nov 06, 2010 at 09:18 PM
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it can be hard to bounce back from but it is very possible. bond slowly, there is no need to rush, especially if you would like it to be a lasting relationship
__________________ How I long to be up rather than down, the eternal sorrow that I only escape for short periods. This must be how Persephone felt. "Sleep. Those little slices of Death. How I loathe them." Edgar Allan Poe Loving yourself must come first from there comes love for everything else. |
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Location: Orange County, California
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Nov 08, 2010 at 01:43 AM
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Location: USA
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Nov 11, 2010 at 12:15 PM
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I'm so sorry that you've been betrayed like that. It's so hard to open up, and I can completely empathize with that. It's especially hard to open up when it's thrown back at you for whatever reason.
I'm so sorry. I hope you learn to trust again, and that person earns it! |
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