i told myself never again

Recently due to my condition I felt it would be best if I was to continue being single as I have been for awhile now. Well I've been chatting with friends male and female online and one guy was seeing a girl and he broke up with her because he thinks about me a little. He lives really far away and now I'm not sure what to say to him bcz we aren't anything but the friends we were before and even that was just getting to know you friends. Mind you he is cute and funny and smart (online anyway) I feel terrible. I feel bad for my friend even though she doesn't seem too upset. I feel bad for me bcz I don't really know what to think about it. I never thought about seeing someone that far away. 2hrs or something not bad but 2000 miles. My mind want to go into hide mode. I don't think I can handle this I don't even know if I think its right. Its been a good run with my friends and I want to chat with them more but I don't know what we are supposed to say now. Some of it is me bcz I like him but I don't know if I can maintain a relationship. A close one let alone a long distance one. I want to tell him to get back with connie. Make life simpler I guess. Or not I don't know.

Focus on reality and whats really important.Theres no way too remain loyal from that far away.4 u are him

Hi - A long distance relationship never works out unless one person is willing to move closer to the other, and that doesn't make sense right now. And you don't seem to welcome a relationship at this point, so you might want to "cool it" with this person for the time being. Just be up-front and tell him that you're not in the market for a relationship now, and that you'd rather just be friends - at least for the time being. That way you can still talk, but he has the honest truth about where he stands. There's no point in making up any story. Just be honest with him. That always works best --- at least it does for me.

I wish you the very best!! Take care of yourself, and God bless. Hugs, Lee

Well I don't know what I was thinking. Even if I was ready for a relationship and if the distance didn't matter. He still has some unresolved business with connie. There is absolutely no way I am getting btn anything like that. I think my original plan of singlehood(bachelorette for life) is seeming like a better idea again.