How to get over someone you loved

Hey! Well as you all probably already know,I really loved/love this one guy and we had been going w/ each other for about a year. He broke up with me July 23rd 2003.
I still haven't gotten over him at all,and it's really bothering me,because I know we'll never be together again,but some part of me thinks he will be back. But it's a small part of me. These feelings have been getting me down alot! Worse thing is I think he 'loves' someone else that is really close to me..and I think they communicate over the phone,as I have heard her talking to someone about certain things that would be like him. *i'm hoping this is making sense,sort of confusing myself* anyways, how do you get over someone you love so much? and will the pain ever go away???

~*~A million words would not bring you back,I know because of tried. Neither would a million tears,I know because i've cried.~*~
~~~~Sabrina~~~~~~~

I had the same problem you did. I just tried to stay occupied and not to idle so much, because I noticed that those are the times you start going downhill. I also tried looking for someone else. It's hard, you just gotta press on. Time will make the pain go away, it took me a while. It's been almost 3 years, but I still think about her every once in a while, but it doesn't bring me down anymore. Just sharing my thoughts, later.

yes the pain will go away someday

It takes a while, and being around him will make it linger longer.
But moving on, and trying to see others will help.. I know that is a thing you most likely did nto want to hear.. but getting out and hving fun, with out him, will be the best thing for you

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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Sending you positive energy, AmericanAngel.

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>

Thanks pic,Lady_dragus,and Peaunt61.
((((((((HUGZ)))))))))

~*~A million words would not bring you back,I know because of tried. Neither would a million tears,I know because i've cried.~*~
~~~~Sabrina~~~~~~~

I'm sorry to hear what you're going thru. I agree with the others here, getting out and feeling good about yourself is the only thing that ever helped me. It makes it even worse when you think the other person has already moved on. They say the pain goes away eventually, and maybe it does, but the only thing you can do is try to make yourself feel better. My boyfriend and I are on a constant rollercoaster with splitting up and getting back together, and I know how awful it feels when you know you've lost someone who seemed to be "the one". Good luck, my thoughts are with you.

It's okay,I guess. It's rough though. Yeah,I can only get out to go to youth programs at our church,but that's it for the most part. Yeah,it does make it worse. There's kinda more too it,but I don't think I can put it on here,if they end up coming here,or anything like that. I'm sorry about you and your boyfriend and the rollercoaster thing.... I hope it gets better for ya,and thank you! ((((((((daffadil))))))

~*~A million words would not bring you back,I know because of tried. Neither would a million tears,I know because i've cried.~*~
~~~~Sabrina~~~~~~~

Hi there Angel. I understand your pain so very much. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years also in July. He is seeing someone else now and the pain of knowing that is so hard to bear. I try to stay busy but those lonely times do come. Maybe finding a date would help, maybe not. Let me know how things go for you.
Good luck,
Alliecat

Hello alliecat, I'm sorry about your boyfriend seeing someone else. :\ Yeah,I try and stay busy too,but yeah your right..the lonely times to come,and those are rough. Yeah,a part of me really wants to move on,'cause I know it's just hurting me,but another part of me doesn't,and i'm really kinda confused. heh. Yeah i'll let ya know. Hope everything works out good for ya.

~*~A million words would not bring you back,I know because of tried. Neither would a million tears,I know because i've cried.~*~
~~~~Sabrina~~~~~~~