So Confused

Me and my ex were talking tonight about us. We are still in love with each other, yet we have both moved on. I love my bf but I'm not in love with him really. I love them both. We were talking about the things that went wrong for us, and i know it would not be a healthy relationship, but at least I would be in love. I love being with my ex when she's not drinking or using. But I know that I cannot have that. I want her so badly, but she's not willing to settle down with me or have children (adopt or whatever). Well, she's not willing to do that with her current gf. But she's willing to do it with me I think. She wants me to wear our ring again...but can I? I don't know what to do at this point.

Lexicon, that sounds like a really hard situation to be in. is there any way that you can step back for a week or two and look at the entire situation while you're trying to sort your feelings out?

gl, hon. let us know.

kd

I think kimmy is right. A bit of thinking time is needed for you.That way you stand a better chance of making the best decision for you. I know its hard.

All the girls

Lex, you seem to be doing better now. I'd hate to see it landslide.
If she's into drinking and using, I really don't think you should be with her. I don't see any good coming from that.
Have you ever thought about being single for awhile? Time alone for you?
I don't know, Lex. Being around drugs and a drinker is never a good thing. Think about all you've already been through.
Hope you choose what's best for you.
(((((((Lex)))))))