[geez]

I'm going to talk to my husband tonight and tell him I love him (because I do) but I don't have these feelings of wanting to be intimate on a sexual level. I want to want be intimate with him as I love him but I feel very sad and worried for our marriage. I feel like if I continue to feel this way then our marriage is doomed and we heading for a divorce (no I am not seeing anyone nor interested in anyone outside of my marriage).

I'm not happy right now and I hate having these feelings of.....
1. not feeling fulfilled in my marriage
2. then feeling like I'm lucky to have such a great guy
3. to then feeling all over again that I'm not feeling fulfilled in my marriage

my husband wont go to marriage counseling btw

feeling desperate to make these feeling go away. I so wish I could make them go away. feeling depressed.

Thanks for listening.

[Leed]

Do you know why you feel like this? What could he do that would make you feel more fulfilled, if anything? What are you missing? Do you think someone else could fill the bill? Are you just generally unhappy? Do you feel you're depressed? Have you talked to your doctor about this? How old are you and how long have you been married?

It's very possible that just having a heart to heart talk with your doctor might help. Sometimes its a physical thing that is messing us up mentally. It could be hormonal, or you could be depressed. Why not visit your doctor and see what he has to say? It's worth it. Best of luck. God bless. Hugs, Lee

[geez]

All those questions I've been running through my mind for a while. I may be talking to my Dr. besides my T about this.