i have little trust for my boyfriend

My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and 4 months. In those past 2 years I've caught him talking to other girl (this includes when I was pregnant with our son) he has lied to me about doing drugs, about where he has been. He knows I have little trust for him and he acts like it doesn't bother him. Most recently I found text messages asking where to find coke, pictures of some girl, and email of some girls breast. His excuses were the coke was a joke, the pictures he found at work and meant to throw away although I found them buried under his clothes in his dresser and he swears Ye never uses that email. I don't know whether or not to believe him. I ask why he lies and I always get the answer that he is to scared to tell me the truth.

What do you guys think?

It sounds like a lame excuse to me. Why would he be afraid to tell you the truth?? The dope KNOWS he'd get in MORE trouble by lying to you. No thanks -- he sounds like a liar to me. sorry. Hugs, Lee

Is he still using coke, it is a very expensive habit and will lead to many more lies, it will have a big impact on both you and your son. You should really take a long look at this relationship it sounds like you are committed to make it work but he don't care. It doesn't help you are doing your best to make it work. "It should come from both"

the drugs, the lying, the other women! this is an unhealthy relationship and BAD for your child! do what you feel is right for u but I`d suggestion leaving!

If you want to learn a little more about what is going on with him, you can visit the following website:crackreality.com. it is designed for those who love someone with a coke problem. You will find lots of knowledge and support.

I share this with you because there were a lot of people around me doing coke and crack and it helped me understand and protect myself and my loved ones...

I wish you all the best. If you have any specific questions, feel to email me.