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Old Feb 28, 2011, 06:21 AM
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There was this guy likes me and have been trying to go out with me for years. He often jokes with my bestfriend that he'll wait for me until me and my bf breakup. Everybody knows that he likes me. He even bought me a bday present 4 months early because he only can get it at that time, by the season of my bday they wont be selling it anymore. Sometime he send me flowers at work, other time he send me anomyous flowers (i've always love getting flowers) but i kept drilling him with question and he finally admit it's his. He tried to call me throughout those years serval times but i never pick up his phone call. I do reply to his texts though.

Last night while i was sleeping, i got a text from him said 'I love you' ten minutes later another text said this is 'his-name' he's sorry to bother me and asked if i'm sleeping right now or not. Two minutes later he said he got the wrong number. Note that during all these time, i didn't reply at all because i was sleeping.

From what i know, first of all it's kinda hard to send text to a wrong number because the phone ( I might be wrong but this is just how it is on all my phones and friends' phones) always ask to confirm who you're texting to. and he got my number saved to his phone with my name in it. THe only time you don't have to confirm the name is when their texts to you is still remain in your inbox and you just reply to it but we haven't text each other for a loooong time.
Secondly, why don't he just said wrong number in the first place? why ask if i'm still sleeping or not? And what i don't get it why does he even state his name for?

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Old Feb 28, 2011, 02:54 PM
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Sounds like he got embarrassed, and had second thoughts. Since you didn't answer (he should have figured you were asleep!) he must have panicked and felt kind of silly or something. Who knows? But now you know how he feels. What you choose to do with that info is up to you. LOL Take care. Hugs, Lee

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Old Mar 01, 2011, 04:38 AM
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It is possible to text to the wrong person... I have done it once - with a good outcome that was funny and also my ex once accidently sent "Love you lots baby" to his managing director as it was the last number that he had text too.... that also had an embarrassing/funny outcome as it was mentioned at the end of year dinner.
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Old Mar 02, 2011, 12:34 PM
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He is feeling you out..wanted to see how you would respond. When you didn't he felt the need to protect his ego and send the wrong # message.

At least that is my opinion...giving you my male perspective.
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Old Mar 03, 2011, 07:04 AM
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Sorry to say this but the guy seems immature especially if he is over the age of 25. But if you are teenagers, I would give him a break. And it seems like he is mildly stalking you and since you have a boyfriend it just seems odd trying to get a women that is already committed to someone else.
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Old Mar 03, 2011, 07:58 AM
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Awwwww. Thats SO sweet!
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Old Mar 03, 2011, 08:08 AM
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I have text-ed the wrong number to it is possible, I do think he is infatuated with you and just letting you know in a different way, as he is obviously not getting anywhere.
if he is bothering to much then you have to let him know seriously you are not interested and even if you end up single you are not interested, however if you like him don't string him along cause you like the attention its just not fair.
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