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Mar 09, 2011, 09:04 PM
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We weren't even going out, it was just a joke about hooking up, then it turned to fwb, and then to a relationship without a title.
He made me happy, I got to trust him, believed he cared about me, thought everything was amazing. Then thoughts turned to questions which became voiced, which turned into arguments, then turned to ignoring. Then I finally got him to tell me what his deal was. We went our seperate ways, talking barely as if its a back breaking task trying to give me the time of day... I tried fixing it, telling him I wish things were back to the way they were...He couldn't even give me an answer. I feel like Im waisting time, and its breaking my heart. I think I really like him... Or Im just depreate for someone to be that personal with. I don't even care if we hook or not, I just want to be with him. I feel like a fool...  I feel like Im waving a giant sign in front of his face, and even stickynoting his car and be like. "PAY ATTENTION TO ME, DON'T YOU CARE ANYMORE?"  [He should even know how I feel, he got his heart broken by this girl he liked a lot, who they were gonna go out once they got to college]
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Mar 09, 2011, 10:16 PM
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Sorry. I hope you find some peace.
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Mar 09, 2011, 10:21 PM
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I'm so sorry.
 There is no such thing as friends with benefits... it's a media lie. I'm really really sorry that you found out the hard way. (((hug)))
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Mar 09, 2011, 10:48 PM
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I think I like him... I just have this feeling like I miss him all the time, and I feel just all this craziness...
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I Took The Road Less Traveled... Now Where The Hell Am I... Promises are just lies we believe... And lies are just stories you've heard before and know the ending by heart "Just the record the weather today is slightly sarcastic with a good chance of A. indifference or B. disinterest in what the critics say..." [This is the year to rethink those choice and make the best of them... Staying clean] |
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Mar 09, 2011, 11:07 PM
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I agree with Mgran, that fwb is very hard to carry off.
I think it is due to the fact that sex is more than just fun and games. It's one way we humans build connection. In a fwb situation, you either develop feelings for one another (hello complications) or just drift apart. The reason we seek out fwb is that one or more of the parties to the transaction isn't available for more commited possibilities. Good sex (and there's no point in having un-good sex) leads invariably to intimacy which then naturally seems to lead to commitment. How hard is it to feel intimacy with someone who (for whatever reason) cannot commit to you? Pretty risky, if you ask me! |
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Mar 10, 2011, 06:00 PM
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It didn't even get to sex. Just thinking if I could go back in time and stop myself from ever questioning how everything was and what we stood for I would do it in a heart beat. Just thinking about him, makes me wanna cry and I can't even see a red jeep without thinking it might be him and feeling my heart sink.
I finally got everything off my chest and I told him how I feel, and blah blah. He said he was glad I told him, but I knew things would change but I don't know, just being stupid. I kept hope I wouldn't see him but at the same time that I would just as an excuse to talk to him... He was supposed to help me with my math, as he promised he would yesterday night, I texted him earlier and I couldn't even get a straight answer, like he felt uncomfortable to even text me... He's a senior so he'll be gone by the end of April... ugh what a mess >_<
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I Took The Road Less Traveled... Now Where The Hell Am I... Promises are just lies we believe... And lies are just stories you've heard before and know the ending by heart "Just the record the weather today is slightly sarcastic with a good chance of A. indifference or B. disinterest in what the critics say..." [This is the year to rethink those choice and make the best of them... Staying clean] |
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Mar 10, 2011, 11:47 PM
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"It didn't even get to sex. Just thinking if I could go back in time and stop myself from ever questioning how everything was and what we stood for I would do it in a heart beat."
Oops, sorry for the error. I misunderstood your fwb. |
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