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Old Mar 30, 2011, 04:16 AM
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I ended my relationship with my father yesterday and have been disowned by him, so I would please like a small huggle or two.

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Old Mar 30, 2011, 04:21 AM
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Evening. . . .
I'm sorry to hear this. . . .
May god bless you. . . .
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Old Mar 30, 2011, 04:23 AM
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Oh, I am so sorry (((Evening))) I don't know what to say.
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Old Mar 30, 2011, 05:43 AM
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You on't have to say anything to try and make me feel better, I'm just so angry and depressed about it. At least I think I'm depressed about it. God I don't even know anymore. I keep clinging to SOMETHING, I thought maybe deep inside I wanted something with him, but I think that maybe I don't want that with HIM, I just have to acknowledge to myself that deep inside, I have always wanted a father, a real one that cared about me and would never call me names or put me down, or hurt me, both physically or emotionally, and I am never going to have that. I envy people with great fathers. The things he said to me yesterday, that was supposed to be my FATHER. I got so mad, I told him the world will be a better place when he's gone and he can go to hell. And I really meant it. He doesn't speak to me like I'm his daughter, he treats me like the scum of the earth. He accused me of things I've never done, told me I'll never survive in life. I had to delete all the messages he sent to me on my phone, I can't look at them.
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Old Mar 30, 2011, 06:04 AM
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I'm very very sorry to hear of what you had to go through. . . .
I know it must have been very hard for you. . . .
I can understand it must have been very hurtful for you. . . .
But there's nothing you could do to change the way he behaves with you. . .
It's good to be separated from him if he behaves like this to you. . . .
i hope for the best for u. . . . . sending loads of hugs and warm wishes your way. . . . .
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Old Mar 30, 2011, 08:02 AM
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As she draws her final breath
Just beyond the door he'll find her
Taking her hand he softly says

For the first time you can open your eyes
And see the world without your sorrow
Where no one knows the pain you left behind
And all the peace you could never find
Is waiting there to hold and keep you
Welcome to the first day of your life

Just open up your eyes as I lay you down tonight
Safe on the other side
No more tears to cry
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Old Mar 30, 2011, 07:27 PM
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