[anthonytovar10]

I havent been in a relationship in a very long time, I always had a mind set, not to get in a serious relationship, until I new she was the one, Now that Im older I tell myself that Iam a fool, for being such a person. I missed so many oppurtunity that I could of had but I was blind to what these women wanted from me...till this day I feel such a fool, and nieve. Know that Iam older is harder for me to be in a relationship, because I never gave myself that oppurtunity. Another thing is that I have trust issues. I get this alot because of the infedility of my parents. How can i go by starting a relationship with out being so nieve and blind. The reason I say that Iam older is because Im 33, the thing about me, is that I have a baby face (which to me can be a gift and a burden). I have learned the way people look and treat based on your looks, and this has a profound affect on social life. What can I do to improve my social life and realtionship.

[JeanneDoe]

Go out and do the things you like, this way you can meet people that like the same things.
LL Bean has adventure classes. Hiking, snowshoeing, kayaking.
Open mic, the bookstore.
Great places to meet people!
Maybe even take a class at a community school, art, music, cooking?
I think 33 is far from too old, in fact I think its a great age, you are more mature now and you know more of what you want.
Baby face is also a good thing! Studies have shown that when women pick men for relationships they naturally go for more of a baby face or round face.
Date, goto movies dinner, coffee.. No need to rush. Take things slow, and be respectful.
You will do just fine!

[scarlet11]

Good advice!

[anthonytovar10]

Jean, Doe
Thank you for your input, I have been thinking about joining this organization called Highlife, mostly for singles, and I think im going to join, it is true, I have to live my life the way I like too. Thanks again,
By the way would you like to have some coffe sometime lol...thanks again

Originally Posted by JeanneDoe

Go out and do the things you like, this way you can meet people that like the same things.
LL Bean has adventure classes. Hiking, snowshoeing, kayaking.
Open mic, the bookstore.
Great places to meet people!
Maybe even take a class at a community school, art, music, cooking?
I think 33 is far from too old, in fact I think its a great age, you are more mature now and you know more of what you want.
Baby face is also a good thing! Studies have shown that when women pick men for relationships they naturally go for more of a baby face or round face.
Date, goto movies dinner, coffee.. No need to rush. Take things slow, and be respectful.
You will do just fine!

In order to be good in a relationship, you have to learn how to be in a relationship. Dating takes practice and most of us don't marry the first person we meet - I think it's a great idea for you to join a group that will help you meet people - when you allow more people into your life you'll learn to trust them bit by bit.
You don't have to fall in love with every girl you date - just go out and have a good time and try to get to know people and you will learn how to figure the relationship part out.
good luck!