[windnrain]

I am so sick of being with someone who don't even know who he is. One min, he wants to be one way, than as soon as he is around some of his stupid friends he wants to be something else. This man has some serious issues. It is like being on a roller coaster ride with him. It is so hard, I am trying to hold it all together for a child who truly needs me and for the life of me, I don't even know why I am with him anymore. I don't know what to do. I can't fix his problems and mine too. What do you do when you just don't know what you even want anymore? I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.. I am the only one holding this together. I have used the advice I have given others but, it doesn't seem to work for me, so to those I have talked to, I am sorry if my advice was worthless.. maybe it doesn't work for me because, I don't even know how I feel any longer.

[Leed]

Why stay with this person then? Why not leave, or break up? This sounds like a toxic relationship to me. If nothing else, it's too much work!

Find someone who is comfortable with himself ~ and doesn't have to pretend who he is for the sake of his friends. Get rid of this guy, and find a healthy one. You'll be much better off. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee