want to talk to him

I started talking to this guy that I use to like in high school. We were talking to each other like every day for about a month. He started hang out with some new. I got a little mad at him and wanted to get back at him. So I kiss another guy and told him about it. He was very very mad at me for doing that. And he said that he can't trust me anymore. I told him that I was very sorry for what I did. He was so mad at me that he stop talking to me for about a week. Then he got a girlfriend. I did not know what to do, so I stop talking to him. He said that was not cool for me to do that and that he wants to be friends. I want to be friends with him to but it so hard talk to him. So the only thing that came to me was to write him letters. Sometimes he write back and others he did not. I know he has a lot of things to deal with, like his girlfriend braking up with him and he lost his job too. I just want to be a friend and be there for him. All I want is to have him in my life.

If you want to have a friend or relationship, the first thing that you DON'T do is play head games. And that is what you were doing. Just because he got a girlfriend, you don't go kiss a guy and tell him about it just to get back at him. That's not fair to the guy you kissed OR to the guy you're talking to. AND it doesn't say much for you either. You have to be careful of your reputation. Once it's lost, you can't get it back.

I wouldn't keep bombarding him with letters. If you keep "nagging" him with letters, he'll never contact you. If he writes back, fine -- if he doesn't then you know he isn't interested. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee

I think that being a friend right now probably means giving him some space