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Old May 24, 2011, 02:45 PM
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I lost my soul mate when I was 30 year's old to Cronze desease.
Three year's later I was Diagnosed with Coloreactal Cancer and had surgery to remove a Tumor the size of a Grapefruit. A year later I was having Problem's with ED and had some test done and found out that in the healing process that Scar Tissue had formed around Blood Vessel's and their was nothing that could be done about it. Since then I have tried to have a realationship with other women but because of the damage that had been done They could not deal with me sexually.
Every one has told me that their is some one out their for me. But after 17 year's I am just at a point of Emptiness in my Life. any one have any kind of advise?

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Old May 25, 2011, 06:54 AM
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Hi ~ I'm a little disappointed that some folks haven't advised you to seek more opinions from other doctors -- Go to a teaching hospital and seek the advice of the head of the department. I find it hard to believe that there isn't SOMETHING they can do for you!!! You are too young to be saddled with this.

There are so many things they can do now -- please seek help for this problem. You're not "over the hill" yet. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee

PS ~ I know you're probably tired of doctors, but it's worth it.
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Old May 25, 2011, 09:35 AM
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I have had this problem since the age of 34 and have already seen many Dr about it. But I have had Several Surgeries to that area since then. aftre my last surgery I have developed a Bladder Fistula and I do not know If I want any more Surgery.
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Old May 25, 2011, 09:44 AM
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Wow ~ Well, I can't say I blame you for not wanting to undergo any more surgery. I don't think I'd want to either in the same situation. ( although I'm female )

You know, believe it or not there ARE women who just aren't that interested in sex for one reason or another. For instance, I'm a widow and I don't care if I EVER have sex again - I prefer not to. Call me sick, or whatever but it never interested me that much and I've been thru therapy so I hope no one suggests that. LOL

So there ARE women out there (and I've talked to many) who just don't care about it!! Don't worry -- you'll find your companion one day soon. God bless, Whitneyman. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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