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Jul 03, 2011, 10:34 AM
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i need help, i need a life.
i feel so alone and i'm just so tired. husband cheated on me. it's caused so much pain in our marriage. i feel like shutting down but i have nowhere really private to do this. so i cannot shut down. find myself thinking about things that happened years ago. childhood,late teens, young adulthood . . .reg adulthood. lately i am fixated on the domestic issues between husband and i. things that happened years ago. like the time he broke my nose. or all the times we had sex against my will. he is a loving man but i'm not remembering that right now. right now all i see is the man who hurt me. the one person i thought loved me unconditionally. |
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Jul 03, 2011, 11:42 AM
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(((((((((needalife)))))))))
I'm sorry to hear you are so down. Sending you hugs and wishes that things will look up soon. 
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Jul 03, 2011, 01:58 PM
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How devastating. Please be good to yourself.
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Jul 04, 2011, 12:45 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through that.
 "husband cheated on me. it's caused so much pain in our marriage.I've been through that and I spent a lot of time crying in my car. Give yourself time to feel your emotions because unfortunately you need to feel them to heal them. It takes a long time to get over the betrayal and he needs to be open to helping you through that. It's difficult. Has there been any recent abuse or has he gotten help for that behaviour? |
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