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Old Jun 23, 2011, 04:06 AM
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Is it ok for a married man to call another woman, a friend the wife never met, a hottie?

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Old Jun 23, 2011, 04:10 AM
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Is it ok for a husband to constantly text a female BFF the wife never met and hide his conversations when asked to show them? Am I just paranoid or is this wrong?
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Old Jun 23, 2011, 11:31 AM
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Is it ok for a husband to constantly text a female BFF the wife never met and hide his conversations when asked to show them? Am I just paranoid or is this wrong?
No. I would take it as a red flag.

It seems he is not taking your feelings into consideration, when he is acting this way.
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Old Jun 23, 2011, 11:55 AM
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Depends on the circumstances. I have a female friend, she lives 2,000 miles away. We e-mail, but don't do phone calls. Nothing is sexual, she is married too. Generally we discuss work because we both have the same type of job and were at the same facility until I moved on. Sometimes we discuss politics or religion, but never each other spouse.
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Old Jun 23, 2011, 12:18 PM
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First I would try to find out where he knows this woman from. Does he work with her? Did he meet her through friends or at a social gathering? I would ask him why he's being so secretive with his telephone calls. Also, find out if she lives close by. I think if you get all your concerns out and discuss these with him, and let him know how you feel, it may turn out okay.

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Old Jun 23, 2011, 06:53 PM
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if he is hiding the texts from you something is definitely NOT right!
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Old Jun 25, 2011, 11:14 PM
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It really doesn't matter if other people think its okay, if it bothers you, then you need to discuss it with your husband.

If he has nothing to hide regarding this woman then he should have no problem showing you any and all conversation between them.
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Old Jun 28, 2011, 03:11 AM
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I agree with kitkat and jenkins....
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