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Jul 03, 2011, 10:40 PM
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short story: i met this guy, who i was not interested in but went out with and ended up making out - he really liked me but i stopped seeing him and dated new guys.
fast forward (and how things change) i like him again. only, he has been on and off with his gf for 5 years. can i expect him to dump her for good and start seeing me? should i even bother? what is up with men who get out of long relationships with girls they keep going back to? * i think it's because he can't find anyone to replace her. i want to be that. i think i can be that. |
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Jul 04, 2011, 07:51 AM
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Sometimes its hard to leave familarity. I would think that asking him would certainly clarify some boundaries.
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Jul 06, 2011, 11:26 AM
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I think you should let this guy know how you feel now. Like you said, he might be on and off with this girl because he has no one else to be with. Maybe if you let him know that you now like him, he'll consider leaving her for good
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