Controlling Husband.....

I am REALLY FKING OVER my husband always thinking he knows whats best and right for me and acting like I have no damn clue.

At the moment, he is living at my mums, where she has my little girl while I get sorted out till the end of the year.

I am making arrangements and am currently staying with my best friend and his fiancee. He phoned earlier and woke me up (I have tonsillitis and am horribly sick) and I said later, I'll call you.

Then he turns up at the door phoning to say 'let me in' so he can put our bed, my friends new spare bed, together. He just expects me to be fine with it. I was happily sleeping on the mattress on the floor, after a crappy nights sleep feeling like hell.

He does things like this all the time and just expects me to be ok with it. I'm so damn over it. Best sleep I got, broken by him, when I am SICK, which he knows, because HE had time now.

Am I overreacting or is this controlling bs behaviour? If your spouse did this to you would it piss you off?

I just can't get my head around him being an inconsiderate bastard all the time.

I don't know the whole situation, but from what I'm reading it looks like maybe you both have a misunderstanding of each other. I think communication is the key here.

I agree communication does wonders. Have you tried to express that he does these things. is it possible that he doesn't realize his trying to help you, isn't seen as helping by you or in some way makes things worse or what you don't need for you at that point in time?
I wish you well, hope that may help a lil

Thanks guys. It is. I'm possibly going into rehab and then we're going to be adressing out issues.