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Jul 12, 2011, 06:14 PM
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What is that about? I have met some new people who are so genuine and caring and nurturing and they actually seem to like me.
But i can't deal with it. It's hurting me. Whenever i give anything of myself or tell them something real and honest that i'm feeling i immediately need to withdraw and i become paranoid that they think bad of me. I think that nobody can be THAT nice surely? Are they judging me for what i say or feel? I can't be who i really am, because once they know, they won't like what they see, i know it. And if they really are as genuine as they seem then how long before they walk away from me? |
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Jul 12, 2011, 08:36 PM
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I feel the same way. Why are they being nice to me. what do they want from me. and definitely about the judging thing .If i ever show the real me i feel scared too dear.
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Jul 14, 2011, 05:13 AM
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similar feelings here too-- but ya know my dad use to tell me this: " you don't know until you try"; and ya know, that doesn't help me in times with this issue but idk.
I know it can be hard to be "real self" sometimes; and to be honet I am not sure how to over come it- hoping best for all.... |
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