[pedro19994]

hay every1 my names dylan im 17 and live in au i had a call from my gf yesterday and she told me she is pregnet and i already no i have a drug and alcohole problem but im to scared to go and talk to any1 coz i just got my apprenticship and if they catch wind that im doing drugs then i have no job and i have tried cold turky but that ended up with me sitting on my bed crying while sliceing my arms and legs open with a razor my gf wants to dump the baby but we both no that we cant due to her still being in skool and me being a first year i dont no why it all tends to screw up on me i finaly get everything sorted and this happens her mum has told her that she is out of the house if its not dumped by the 1 month mark and she is in act and im in qld so its a pain in the *** any sugestions as to what i can do i have thought about moveing down there but again i dont have the money and she dosent work so theres no chance of her moving up here :/

Hello, Dylan. I have no advice. I hope you find a way to sort this out in a manner that is best for all.

[kaliope]

hi dylan
sorry you have all this pressure on you right now. i am uncertain what you mean by "dumping" the baby. are yu referring to an abortion or adoption? in either case it would probably be helpful for your girlfriend to go to a family planning agency of some sort to discuss what her options are.

i am more concerned about you right now. what can you do to take care of yourself? it sounds like you are dealing with substance abuse and self injury issues that need to be addressed. its going to be difficult to support your girlfriend when you have such great stressors of your own to deal with. can you seek some counseling to help you deal with your issues?

stay safe and take care of yourself.