[Subo]

My leg was broken in an accident and I have to use crutches to walk. All these has happened there-after.
My wife lied to me and she is still brave enough to talk to me pretending that it is nothing serious, it's a natural phenomenon. She says every wife lie to their husbands. Well, I don't damn care.
My sub-ordinates at work place are also putting me in trouble. In every mistake they make, they blame me saying that it happened because I didn't supervise them properly and so on.
When I go to the pub, somebody calls my sick and old mom and make exaggerated stories and tells her everything I did after having couple of drinks. She got a heart attack.
My brother who lives in an apartment below mine had threatened his two adorable baby daughters not to speak with me in future.
What is happening to me? All happiness in life taken away from me.
I wish if I could die now. I can't believe this is happening to me.

[IceCreamKid]

Let's not have any die talk right now. Ask your wife not to lie to you. You don't care what other wives do, you just do not want your wife to lie to you. Then when she starts telling you truth you do not like to hear, stay calm and appreciate she is being truthful. The same situtation may be at work, too. If your subordinates say you didn't supervise them properly, talk to them and find out how they think you could supervise them better. Try to come to a compromise that gets the work done with fewer mistakes. If drinking alcohol is behind all of these problems, then seek out the help you need to stop drinking.

[Subo]

Thanks bro! But only few minutes I enjoy in life is at the pub now. I open-up my heart there and tell all my sad stories to someone who understands me. Someone who is in trouble same as me. If not I would have gone mad or my life would have ended long time ago.

[shezbut]

Originally Posted by Subo

Thanks bro! But only few minutes I enjoy in life is at the pub now. I open-up my heart there and tell all my sad stories to someone who understands me.

The only time that you're enjoying life is the time spent at the pub?

You could see a therapist to talk openly and get some helpful feedback on how to change the miseries that you are struggling with. That would be a much more productive approach.

It sounds like your current approach to change your misery is only complicating your life, creating more pain. I think that it's time to try working with a therapist and joining a support group to help you through.