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Old Aug 03, 2011, 03:12 PM
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So last night I went to see a friend who I had not seen in a while - we've been intimate before and he knows i'm an eccentric girl.

Anyway, I'm very thin. 5'7 109lbs, so naturally alcohol hits me fast.

Basically, I got drunk from 2 drinks and a shot, and ended up throwing up in his bathroom which I think I forgot to flush.... =/ hahaha.

Ummm should I apologize? I passed on near his bed somewhere...and when I left I said "goodbye" and he didn't really say anything back. Ya.

Is he pissed? Annoyed? He kept trying to make me not drink! That's when I brought out my "Girl Interrupted" quotes ahaha.

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Old Aug 03, 2011, 03:15 PM
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umm... hi.
i would say that yes, you should apologise.
he was obviously trying to take care of you by telling you not to drink
and if he's a friend i'm sure he would appreciate an apology.
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Old Aug 04, 2011, 01:35 PM
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Agreed. Yes, you should apologize. Yes, he's more than likely angry. He got stuck cleaning up your mess, after he tried to get you to not drink, at which point you became probably rude and annoying (I can only assume as I haven't read Girl, Interrupted in a long time). Not to mention he was probably looking forward to actually spending time with you since you haven't seen him in awhile. Definitely apologize. Heck, take him out for lunch and apologize.
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Old Aug 04, 2011, 01:49 PM
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Yes definitely apologise. I'm sure he'll forgive you. Keep the drinking to a minimum. And if it makes you feel any better. Several years ago (over five) when I was young and liked to party more, I've been know to actually throw up mid intimacy.. . . . yeah, it doesnt get any worse than that. Like Roman Sunburn suggested, taking him out to lunch or even dinner (minus the alchohol) to apologise might help smoove things over. Good luck.
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Old Aug 04, 2011, 01:50 PM
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Yes definitely apologise. I'm sure he'll forgive you. Keep the drinking to a minimum. And if it makes you feel any better. Several years ago (over five) when I was young and liked to party more, I've been know to actually throw up mid intimacy.. . . . yeah, it doesnt get any worse than that. So like RomanSunburn suggested, take him out to lunch or maybe even dinner (minus the alcohol) to apologize, it'll help smoove things over. Good luck.

Yeah, sorry, I didn't know how this got posted twice instead of being edited.

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Old Aug 04, 2011, 02:42 PM
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i texted him an apology that i drank too much

gosh im so embarrassed.

he has yet to respond...
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Old Aug 04, 2011, 08:13 PM
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i texted him an apology that i drank too much

gosh im so embarrassed.

he has yet to respond...
I agree with the others palemoss.

An apology ~ explaining what you're sorry for would be best.

Like; "Sorry I drank too much, got sick, and passed out at your place!"

Back in my drinking haydays, I've done worse. I once threw up on a guy as we were making out & went on making out with him. Gross! When I woke up, I felt like such a horrible person. But he was gone...the end.

I hope that he accepts your apology and you're able to be true friends.
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Old Aug 04, 2011, 09:40 PM
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Well, not that you asked, but coming on the heels of the episode with the other fella, I'm a little more concerned with how YOU are feeling, than with how HE is feeling about anything. I'm an eccentric girl myself, and I think you are having a hard time finding guys that are a good match for you, intellectually or something? Not sure why or what is going on, how to change things up, meet more, new, different people.
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