[Hydrophobic1212]

Okay, so I'm a teenager... And I've only ever had one real relationship before. This guy screwed up royally (he chose to go out drinking - illegal at his age, mind you - rather than pick me up for our date). But it's been two years since then and I've gotten to be friends with him again. Now things are starting to heat back up, you might say. He is definitely a changed person. I know that for a fact.... The problem here lies with me.

There are a few things I'm concerned with.

1) Am I just wanting him back because he's the first guy to show interest in me?
2) If I get into a relationship (even if it's not with him), how do I handle it? I'm Bipolar and I have some anxiety problems along with psychosis. How do you handle all that with a relationship?
3) Would I be making a good decision with getting back with him or should I wait to see what the school year brings? Maybe there will be a new boy I like?

I'm feeling a little lost... Help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

[Leed]

Why tie yourself down? In High School, you're supposed to have fun! Who wants problems with a relationship? You can still be friends, but why not "play the field?" There could be a 'special' someone out there that you might miss if you tie yourself down to this guy.

And try not to anticipate problems just because you are BiPolar. Chances are you'll do just fine. If you do experience some anxiety, just be honest with the person and tell them that you're anxious/nervous. That's no crime, and is pretty normal especially when on the first few dates. You'll do just fine!!

Best of luck and I hope your school years goes great! Hugs, Lee

[Hydrophobic1212]

Originally Posted by Leed

Why tie yourself down? In High School, you're supposed to have fun! Who wants problems with a relationship? You can still be friends, but why not "play the field?" There could be a 'special' someone out there that you might miss if you tie yourself down to this guy.

And try not to anticipate problems just because you are BiPolar. Chances are you'll do just fine. If you do experience some anxiety, just be honest with the person and tell them that you're anxious/nervous. That's no crime, and is pretty normal especially when on the first few dates. You'll do just fine!!

Best of luck and I hope your school years goes great! Hugs, Lee

Thanks! That was actually my original thoughts. I didn't see the point of having a boyfriend in high school... But I think I really do like the guy, but I also want to play the field, as you said... I guess I'll see what the school year has to bring.

Thanks a lot!

[Trippin2.0]

I had my first steady bf AFTER graduating fr0m HS. My m0m made me pr0mise to play the field as she didn't want me getting to0 caught up in *****... Best pr0mise i eva kept. I was h0nest and upfr0nt with the guys i had flings with,told'em i pr0mised n0t to get tied down, i enjoyed those years.