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Old Jan 22, 2006, 12:05 AM
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I go to extremes to help and now I feel like I've been kicked in the ***** , is this a fairweather friend ????
As long as I console everything is fine, do I get good news NO I have to see it here, well I bleed too ya know
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Old Jan 22, 2006, 10:42 AM
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SORRY!! - some people just need so much that they do indeed fail to be a true friend.... maybe you two need a heart to heart talk of what each except from the relationship and of the wrong assumptions that have taken place so far.

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Old Jan 22, 2006, 01:05 PM
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Your very perceptive, have pmed her so hope things work for best thanks
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Old Jan 22, 2006, 04:02 PM
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Old Jan 22, 2006, 08:44 PM
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I think sometimes when all we do is give, give, give there is a good chance that we will not receive the same kind of help in return from some people.

I'm really sorry that this has happened to you.

Take care.
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Old Jan 22, 2006, 08:49 PM
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((((((((((((((((Angie)))))))))))))))))

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Old Jan 30, 2006, 03:22 AM
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Many times I have found myself in the same position you are in. I have been told that is because I am expecting others to be the same way I am. Well, Yes, I do. I am a good, caring and loyal friend. One who is there to listen and help if needed. But I am sorry, the advise I have been given is true and right. I can not expect that others will treat me with the same kindness. It always hurts so much when my kindness or help is not returned in my time of need. I think the key word is expect. Try to always keep that in the back of your mind. Expect nothing AT ALL. What a wonderful surprise if you do find a friend that is as good as you are!
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Old Jan 30, 2006, 02:07 PM
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Oh no.... I'm sorry, Ange! (((( Angie )))) I know how that feels. Do you think it was inconsideration/selfishness on your friend's part, or was there any chance of a communication breakdown? Nevertheless, it hurts - I had the same thing happen to me last week, so I'm fresh from the memory... Arrrrgggggh

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Old Jan 31, 2006, 11:13 AM
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Hope this doesn't offend, I'm glad I'm not the only one this happens too
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Old Jan 31, 2006, 11:14 AM
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Thanks curly
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