[lunar23]

I'm sitting here talking to my husband and I don't say anything to him cause I step away and when I come back all he does is yell at me cause I didn't say hey to him. I just don't get it. It gets so bad some days to where I wished he would just die from his sickness. Then other days I just wanna walk away from him so I don't have to deal with it but then when he says "If you walk away I'm going to make your life a living hell and going to take everything away from you." That just scares me to where I just sit here and take it. Its not helping me and I'm not sure what to do anymore. All of this is just way to much on me. I've distant myself from my family, my son, and even my close friends. I honestly don't know what to do about this. Any body have any idea on what I can do to get threw this.

[curley]

Have you tried to talk to him and tell him how much he scares or hurts you. I am assuming he is ill since you said you hoped he would die from his sickness. Have you tried expalining that you understand he may not feel well but he is making life difficult for you and you would like to make him comforatable too

[lad007]

Abusers isolate their victims from the people that they love. We all deserve to be in a supportive, loving relationship. The fact that he has threatened your life is very serious.
Contact your local domestic abuse hotline for information on how to deal with this, and keep yourself safe. You deserve a joyful life. Take action.

[standal0ne]

Yeah, you need outside help (like us!). Sometimes help from friends and family is enough. Sometimes it isn't. You are in a bad spot. Run, don't walk, to a support group or facility (sorry, can't tell you which one). This is imperative. It is during these moments when you gotta start being kinda selfish. If you aren't happy, what else is there? Stand up. Be strong (even just enough to make a phone call and set an appointment or whatever).

[lunar23]

Originally Posted by curley

Have you tried to talk to him and tell him how much he scares or hurts you. I am assuming he is ill since you said you hoped he would die from his sickness. Have you tried expalining that you understand he may not feel well but he is making life difficult for you and you would like to make him comforatable too

Yes I've tried that. Still I get the same thing every day. I'm trying to push him away or I'm ignoring him cause I dont talk that much to him anymore. I can never seem to even wanna try no more with him but its like he has a way of saying things to me to just drag me back into it and deal with it a little bit longer.

[lunar23]

Originally Posted by lad007

Abusers isolate their victims from the people that they love. We all deserve to be in a supportive, loving relationship. The fact that he has threatened your life is very serious.
Contact your local domestic abuse hotline for information on how to deal with this, and keep yourself safe. You deserve a joyful life. Take action.

There's already police reports on him about a lot of different things I called in. All they tell me to do is get away and stay away well I've done that but yet he still finds a way of talking to me threw the computer. I'm driving myself crazy with all of this.

[lunar23]

Originally Posted by standal0ne

Yeah, you need outside help (like us!). Sometimes help from friends and family is enough. Sometimes it isn't. You are in a bad spot. Run, don't walk, to a support group or facility (sorry, can't tell you which one). This is imperative. It is during these moments when you gotta start being kinda selfish. If you aren't happy, what else is there? Stand up. Be strong (even just enough to make a phone call and set an appointment or whatever).

Yea, I'm doing all I can here. Just really hard when your so scared your not sure who to trust with anything anymore.